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The first kiss...

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Question - (15 May 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 18 May 2009)
A female South Africa age 36-40, *-otic Angel writes:

today im going to kiss my boyfriend for the first time and im so nervous. I know that the first kiss does determine the relationship but why must we be so nervous after all is just a kiss. what if the kiss is not what i expected it to be. should i still carry on dating him or should i leave him becoz he can not kiss.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2009):

I'm so glad it worked out! ;-)

-GG

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A female reader, K-otic Angel South Africa +, writes (18 May 2009):

K-otic Angel is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Thanks you for the help and the first kiss was good even if we were both nervous but during the course of the weekend i got to get a beter kiss from him and im happy.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2009):

Ahh, memories...

My first kiss was horribly awkward and awful with some exes, and great with others. I would NOT determine the relationship on this. At all. Primarily because the best boyfriend to me that I've ever had was also the worst kisser. The worst at "being a boyfriend" was the best kisser by miles.

In my opinion, a relationship and its first kiss have absolutely NOTHING to do with each other. I think if you give so much gravity to it it will be worse, as well.

Have fun--let's face it--kissing is NOT a serious business and its all about having a good time. Chill out, relax, enjoy!

;-)

Message me if you have questions!

-GG

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2009):

Don't leav ehim after the first kiss, because sometimes it's a bit awkward and doesn't work because you're both so anxious, you can't judge someone on one kiss, unless they bite you!

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A female reader, kellyxxx United Kingdom +, writes (15 May 2009):

kellyxxx agony auntA kiss isn't really a thing to plan, it should just happen when it fells right. You feel nervous because you have planned it. What if you're a bad kisser? Would you like him to dump you just because of that? That's very selfish!! Give him a chance, he's probably nervous to so it probably is going to be a bad kiss because of nerves! X

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