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writes: Broke up with my ex last year in October he says he doesn't know what he wants anymore but still texts me with kisses what does this mean?
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reader, Fatherly Advice  +, writes (17 February 2020):
 Of course you miss him, it's valentines weekend. Tell us how you feel later on this week.
In the meantime think about what you want and need in a relationship. Make sure you don't settle for another unsatisfactory partner. Take your time and get it right.
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reader, N91 +, writes (13 February 2020):
 You can’t exactly blame him can you? YOU broke up with him and now he decided it’s for the best to move on.
If you were right for each other you wouldn’t have broken up in the first place. Go through the grieving process, come out the other side and move on with your life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2020): OP - he told me we are over I cant get over it. I feel he still loves me but pride stops him. I deleted his number and told him ive changed my number but regret it now I just cry and miss him. I have honestly never felt so sad in my life
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reader, Fatherly Advice +, writes (4 February 2020):
Oh so you want him back, even after our warnings. Well make sure you take him back only on your terms. Your Non-negotiable, Unalterable Terms.
Hold On to Your N.U.T.s: The Relationship Manual for Men Paperback – April 1, 2007
by Wayne M. Levine
Don't go back into this until you have evened out the power.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 February 2020): Op-I do still love him and would like to see him again but only as a relationship but he says he's lost ATM and I am away for awhile. I can move on but know we can never reunite if we move on so am hesitant .
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 February 2020): Maybe force of habit? It's also keeping his foot in the door; just in case you're up for an occasional booty-call now and then.
It's best to go silent and completely no-contact; if you're getting mixed-signals from an ex; and you find yourself pondering and wondering what's hidden behind the things they say and do. You will get played and exploited! The very fact he can still text you and mess with your head; is a tell-tale sign you haven't moved on. If you don't have kids together, there is no excuse!
Let's just say, if you were over him...his emojis wouldn't mean squat, and you wouldn't be here asking what he's up to.
If it means anything, it means you need to cut him loose; and stop taking his calls or messages. It's well past time to move on.
I came to DC after I got got blindsided and dumped after a brief relationship. It was great, but it had an expiration-date; and when my time expired, I got the classic kiss-off. It was a process to get-over it; but I pulled myself out of it. Now I help others.
I'm a resilient person. Being a Christian, I believe the things I go through and overcome makes me stronger and wiser. Everything of any value that I've lost, I've more than regained! Anything lost and still left to get back; is sure to return in due time! How? By letting-go when I had to, and going forward with optimism and trusting God.
When you've got free-time, read this:
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/your-ex-is-sending-mixed-signals.html
Get-over him! Stop looking for meaning in his stupid-ass emojis and text messages!!! Toughen-up, girlfriend! If you dumped him, don't second-guess yourself. If he dumped you, don't go for the bait! It's usually a head-game to protect his male-ego. He's trying to keep you confused and too confounded to find somebody new, before he does. Trust my words!
If neither of you have changed your ways, the very reasons you broke-up are still as bad as they ever were! Exes don't usually want you back, they want to find your replacement before you hop into bed with a better lover, with a bigger you-know-what!
That's how people play on your sensitivities and toy with your emotions. They keep you clinging to false-hope; when reconciliations fail for the most-part.
Go forward, and don't look back!
If you've been lonely or dates have been scarce; the wolf is always scratching at the backdoor. If you're smart, you won't let him in!
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reader, Fatherly Advice +, writes (3 February 2020):
"this" means that he still has no boundaries.
Block
No contact
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (3 February 2020):
 Yep, I agree with YCBS.
He wants to make sure that 1. YOU don't move on because he CONSTANTLY reminds you that HE is still there and 2. IN case he doesn't move on or it doesn't work out FOR him, that you can be an option again...
You will have to decide if you want to be the "spare" for him or not. You two broke up almost 4 months ago, but if you kept in constant contact neither of you have perhaps really worked through the break up?
Maybe it's time to REALLY let him go?
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reader, Youcannotbeserious +, writes (3 February 2020):
 That he wants to keep you on a back burner as a Plan B in case he gets no better offers.
You deserve to be someone's Plan A. Move on.
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