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writes:So I met this girl on an online dating website. She lives overseas. I normally don't bother messaging people overseas but we really hit It off. We exchanged numbers and then everyday over 5 weeks we texted and sent voice ntes. We talked about a lot of deep stuff and she said she had told me things she had never told anyone else. She also said a lot of positive things which seemed like things were heading in the right direction. Then she just stopped responding. She sent me a really long message about her day and saying she would text me the next day. She also said that she will find it hard to speak as often due to work (she does run her own business and she does have big deadlines coming up this month) however she does miss talking to me, she actually sent me two texts saying that. I sent her a message back the next day but she hasn't even read it. I can see she has been online. I am finding this very confusing. especially as she was talking about how we were going to talk over the phone when she goes away to do charity work. It has been four days now and she has not read my messages or responded. I'm quite hurt and surprised. The last text she sent me was very detailed and ended in her saying she would text me the next day letting me know about her flights. After three days I sent her another text asking her if she was still alive (in a joking way) but she hasn't read that either What should I do? It has now been four days.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 June 2015): Leave it! Its only been 4 days, maybe she is- you know getting on with her life offline,perhaps read your messages when she has more time to respond. If you send more messages it will look desperate. If she never gets back to you she probably lost interest- it happens. Honestly though I'm don't think you should expect any 'real life' tangible interaction here.if you just want to email and text endlessly and maybe there's a possiblilty of a meet up if you happen to go there on holiday. ButIf you want real life dates maybe spend more time on people that are on the same piece of land as you?(Which I'm guessing is what you want ultimately being on a dating site?) I think this is settling yourself up to fail.
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