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writes:HelloI am a 15 year old boy in my 3d year of high school.I realise that my question might seem childish or ridiculous to some, but if you remember being in love in High School, you understand what I mean.(Just to be clear, I am homosexual)So, there's this boy in my class. Super cute. Super sweet (to some). Bisexual. Single. And I've been in love with him for quite some time. Even though... I'm pretty sure he hates me. I don't know why, everyone just sees that he does.We used to get along. We used to laugh and joke together and i felt so happy and warm in my heart. And it seemed to me like he enjoyed our time together too. But then, out of nowhere, Poof! He evades and ignores me. Nothing happened in the meantime or anything. I try to communicate with him, but he always gets away subtly. It's very possible, though, that it was about that time that he began to realise that I was in Love with him, so that may play a part. Thing is, I still don't know why he's acting this way. It's not like we were ever best friends and this relationship would ruin that (the moments we had together were romanticly mooded more than friendly). I just love him so much but every time I look his way, he's looking back with an expression of hatred. What did I do? Why am I not good enough? What is going through his mind? Please help me I can't sleep at nigh, I'm too busy crying over this. Thank You
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reader, StormySeas  +, writes (11 September 2011):
Hmmm... well, maybe he is just fickle? :)I'm glad he gave you better vibes this week, though...
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 September 2011): @ StormySeas
Hi, I'm the writer of this text.
To answer your questions, no, he is not scared; he's just as out and proud as I am.
Also, if it makes any difference, for the first time since he started acting this way, he smiled (a sweet and unpretentious, unsuggestive and innocent smile) at me today, when I was standing next to him, talking to a friend we have in common.
Also, he called me over from afar to introduce me and my best friend to someone. I however don't understand this action because that guy isn't gay or anything, so I didn't really get the point...
However, please reply
Thanx everybody BTW for the comments
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reader, StormySeas +, writes (6 September 2011):
Heartache is the very worst kind of ache I have ever experienced, so I truly feel for you. The most difficult part can be, not understanding why the one you love can behave a certain way when all you feel is complete and total affection for them. Please do not feel like you are not good enough... maybe it is that he is just going through some personal battles of his own, and honestly, maybe it is that he is scared. It seems that you are very comfortable with your sexuality. Could it be that he is not at the point where he has accepted his own? I just wonder if is putting on a show because he is not ready to step out as a homosexual/bisexual? Regardless of the reason, there is nothing wrong with yo...Be strong... and stay brave. Find a way to give your mind a break from the worry... Please take care of YOU!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2011): He doesnt hate you hon, he just sees that you like him and he doesnt like you that way. People your age often will start avoiding people until they think the "threat" is gone. Once he feels like you dont like him romantically anymore, he might return to normal. It sucks, but you have to move on. He knows you want to be with him most likely, but he is NOT interested in you.
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reader, VSAddict +, writes (5 September 2011):
 You propably will never know why you're not good enough for him. You did nothing but be yourself and have fun and that's all you needed to do. Forget about this guy. If he's going to talk to you and then ignore you for no reason, then he's not worth your time. You will get over him and that's what you should do. There are other guys out there, so don't stay stuck on this one. You're only 15, you will find someone better. Just try to move on for now.
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