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writes:First of all thank you all for answering the question posted yesterday it helped. I've made up my mind, marriage means nothing more than a loss to me. Not only would I lose my ss check off my husband that passed away seven years ago but I'd lose my self respect. I won't sit back and pressure a man that doesn't want to make that commitment to me out of love and wanting to spend the rest of his life with me. It's clear to me that I don't mean as much to him as I thought. I've been a fool to think for the past two years this relationship would lead to something more. It's time I get a life and stop living in a dream land where everything turns out happyly ever after because it never does, I, more than anyone should know this. Once again thank you . Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2009): you depend on this man way too much,why does it mean so much to you to marry him?you like so many other women want that ring on your finger because you need proof of our love for you.the man would'nt have stayed wiyh you for going on three years if he did'nt love you,he could find some one to pay to cook and clean if that's all he wanted,that's what I do.you need to wake up and see that that ring and paper's mean very little in this day and time and get off his back.for what it's worth if I loved someone and knew it ment so much I'd marry just to shut you up.
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reader, Gotanissue  +, writes (11 December 2009):
I can tell by your answer your not to happy but try not to depend so much on a man try your friends
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2009): you sound heart broken,and I feel that you love this man,he should realize this,true love is hard to find,money should'nt stand in the way.Your not wrong for needing some sign after two years,so don't be so hard on yourself,hope things work out.
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