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*ailey J
writes:I would just like to take this time to thank everybody who has answered my questions. I have asked three or four, to you they may seem different subjects, but there not. They all tie into my life today. I have asked about my ex boyfriend and why I dream and have feelings for him. I have asked how I forgive my current boyfriend for betraying me when our son died. And I’ve asked if anyone believes in God and why he allows so much suffering in the world. My life of late has been a quest to find out what I’m heading for and if I’m making the right decisions for myself. And thanks to all your answers I found my answer! I thought I had feelings for my ex boyfriend, but found that I was thinking of him as I was making the same mistakes in my current relationship as I did four years previous with my ex. Also my boyfriend and I have been through the mill in our relationship, but the most hurtful of all was loosing our child. When this happened I found out my boyfriend had asked his ex back just after the funeral. I am now questioning my relationship with him, instead of dwelling on the passed. The one question which has helped me the most is, does anyone believe in God. I got a lot of feed back for this which has truly made a difference to me.When I lost my son Bailey John I was 7 months pregnant and couldn’t understand why it happened. I couldn’t let go! I searched for answers that would help me. I blamed God for taking him and causing me so much pain. When I read some of the feedback so much seemed to make sense. No matter how hard a person tries, no matter how much you blame God for your life….. SHIT JUST HAPPENS. You’ve just got to find away to deal with it and learn from it. Things like these only make you stronger. I know it’s twisted way to look at it I suppose I could change the SHIT JUST HAPPENS for THINGS HAPPEN FOR A REASON, because I believe both. All my questions have been circulating in my head and I know understand that I have to stop making the same mistakes, I should move on and be happy, things in life just happen that you have no power over. Learn from that and it will make you a stronger person. And finally don’t blame God for the pain in your life. God gave you life for you too live it! That’s the Good and the Bad. Thank You all so very much for your time in helping me, your feedback truly did make a difference. Emma
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reader, Melanne +, writes (31 March 2007):
 Wow it is brilliant to hear how much you have moved on. You are right things do just happen and you shouldn't blame God, but He loves us and understands that we will blame Him for the things that happen to us and that's what He is there for so we can speak to Him.It is wonderful to hear how much you have moved on though reading this message shows how much you have moved on and it certainly sounds like you have been on a journey.It sounds like you have grown a lot and learned a lot. All the best to you.
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