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writes: hi friends,This is Kartik. I had posted a question before regarding my frustration. I am in love with a girl whom I started liking with passage with time. This girl is a modern, carefree type of girl who lives life in her own terms.Now many times I get signals from her when she is in front of me but the moment I approach her or try to call her she never anticipates the call. I am confused whether she has the same feelings as I have and she is trying to make me try hard for her.She is fully aware that I like her and want to have her in my life. But she tries to just ignore me and many times I feel that I may be wrong of what she thinks.I am bit confused so can anybody suggest of what I should do and how should I proceed. I am a bit shy, reserved guy and don't express my feelings that often and the girl is a modern, bold one.thanking youkartik
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reader, becky05 +, writes (2 July 2005):
Sorry but it doesnt sound like shes interested in you. Shes probably just enjoying the attention you give her and the fact that she knows you like her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 June 2005): Hi there Kartik, this might not be what you want to hear but judging from what you say, she might just not be interested in you that way. However, having said that, all hope is not dashed! Not yet at least! As you said, this girl lives by her own terms, meaing she does things in her own time, when she feels most comfortable at. Because of this, you should NOT rush her in making any choices. The more you wanted her, the more you let her know you wanted her, and the more she distants herself from you! Do you see the pattern here? I suggest you stop doing that, and drop it fast! Show her that you do have a life as well, and that you're enjoying every minute of it, whether or not she's in or out of the picture. Make it obvious to her that your world does not revolve around her, I know its hard but thats what you're gonna have to do. Its not going to guarantee her liking you, but it creates an attraction to women when you do that. It shows them you're independent and strong! It shows you have character and thats whats most important!! This might take months buand only you know if shes really that worth it. Remember, she already knows you really like her (thats why she's distancing herself away from you), so try doing the opposite of what you've already done, which is to distant yourself away from her. Dont call her, let her call you. Dont ask her out, if she wants to go out, she'll ask. And if she does, do not jump straight at the chance. Give her excuses like you're meeting up some other friends or sumthin like that. Take your time. After all, she is, isnt she?!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 June 2005): Cant you take the hint? Apparently she is not into you. You sound kinda desperate if you ask me. Sounds to me like you are wasting your time. And you are more than likely getting on her nerves. Go bother someone else, and leave this poor woman alone.
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