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Texting a married teacher.. he wants sex but keeps saying no to emotional involvement! Help Me please!

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Question - (12 February 2008) 4 Answers - (Newest, 13 February 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I have been seeing my teacher for the past month! ( dont all say its bad he could loose his job etc because he doesnt actually teach me and i am 18) So the problem is he is married! Over the past month we have been emailin and texting quite alot! All week he is fine then for the past 2 monday mornings he has finished it and then text me later sayin he wants to see me so we talk and then he wants me! I have told him he either wants it or he doesnt and i am not bothered which either way because its lust!

So heres the problem! Do i wait for it or shud i back off! I aint being obbessed because i cant be, he is married he texts me like 20 times a day and emails twice at least! He always says he doesnt want to get emotionally involved but i dont see how he can its just a fling! Help!!!!

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2008):

As soon as he gets you into the sack for a month or so, his interest will probably cool fast.

Do whatever you want, but don't kid yourself. Deep down you know the answers to most of the real questions in these matters. You just may or may no want to hear them at certain times.

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A male reader, Collaroy Australia +, writes (12 February 2008):

Collaroy agony auntHi,

I would tell him to get lost. He sees you as a opportunity to have sex outside of his marriage and probably hopes you will do things he cant get at home. So if this is your cup of tea then its a free world, but I wouldn't kid myself that he wants to get emotionally attached, he is after sex not friendship.

Maybe also ask yourself if you were married would you be happy if your husband was chasing after a young girl.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (12 February 2008):

yes i am serious! i wouldnt ask for help! i am not a bad person he has told me he isnt happy and is going to leave his wife! So yes i am asking!

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A female reader, hello1 United Kingdom +, writes (12 February 2008):

hello1 agony auntIs this serious? You want advice on how to continue this affair with a married man? What sort of person are you? I'm 18 too and I would never do that, you could EASILY find a single guy to sleep with just for kicks. You'll be married one day...just think of that.

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