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anonymous
writes:I have been with my boyfriend for 2 months nearly and my ex wont leave me alone even though it was 3 years ago i last went with him. He made me feel really bad, tonight my boyfriend tried to snog me but i can't, what can i do, i am nervous?
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reader, O Connor  +, writes (12 February 2008):
 your going to have to be cruel to him to get your point across. but you also need to ask yourself why you couldnt kiss you bf, was it cos you still have feelings for this other guy? cos i dont understand why the ex would prevent you from kissing your bf unless you were feeling guilty about it ie having feelings for your ex. if you wanna be with your current bf then your gonna have to be cruel to be kind, tell him that while you would like to still be in contact, you are not with him anymore, you are with someone else and he has to let you go and accept that your not his anymore. your both so young, im sure that its nothing more than teenage jealousy
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reader, kenny +, writes (12 February 2008):
 I think its ridiculous that your ex still won't leave you alone, espessially after 3 years. And he still keeps coming even though he see's you with another partner. I really think you have got to be cruel to be kind, otherwise he is going to be after you for ever more. You have got to get your point across in a firm stern way that what you had with him was over 3 years ago, tell him you have moved on, and advise him to do the same.
All the best x
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