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writes:hi! i have a bit of a personal question for the ladieeeess...when youre about to orgasm, do you have to tense yourself? it sounds weird, but when i am getting to a climax, i tense my body... i dont think i do it on purpose? it feels like i have to tense it to orgasm? i have a boyfriend and i do the same thing whether he is doing it or i am masturbating.. i was just wondering because i have heard that orgasms can last for 10 seconds or something but mine only last for a few seconds. not that im complaining, my boyfriend is more than capable.. i was just curious :)also, if anyone can tell me what is meant by "squirting" then id appreciate it very much! iv heard its even more intense than a normal orgasm but i have no idea what it is or how to acheieve it. sorry, this is a bit... well, detailed!thankyouuu!
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2010): Well as a matter if fact I fence up to when orgasming it us totally normal. In my opinion, I'm 46 year old F very sexually active anything that feels good to you and leaves you satisfied is normal.I have a few quirky ways in which I can only reach orgasm. As for squirting it is when your g spot is being stimulated which is apparently your female prostate fills with fluid not urine and when you feel the need to pee you usually won't , but keep going. When you are about to squirt you will know. We are actually trying
to get me to squirt it is supposed to be eyes rolling in the back of the head fantastic. I hope that helps.
There are all kinds of links via Google if you put in female ejaculation.
Oh one more thing squirting is definetly for couples whom are wanting to explore on a very intimate level. Trust is big!!!
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reader, BettyBoup +, writes (24 May 2010):
 Yes! I have to do that. Like tense your pelvic muscles? I've been kinda worried because if I dont do that, I can't have an orgasm. Like, what my boyfriend does feels really good, but unless I tense my body at the same time, I never actually have a propper orgasm. I've worried that there is something wrong with me because I feel that I shouldn't have to do that to have an orgasm. I always thought that a guy would do his thing and it would just happen. Maybe thats why Ive been disapointed until now lol. Now Ive had an orgasm when my bf fingers me, by doing what I do when I masturbate and tense my body, like you described.
Maybe some girls just have to do that? :s Would be good to know if anyone else has any light to shed on the subject.
As for time length, I never really know how many seconds its takes. All I know is it's over pretty fast, but it is incredibly intense. The build up can feel pretty good too, but the actual orgasm is really intense.
Squirting is where a girl 'squirts' female cum out of her vagina when she has an orgasm. Some women do this!
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