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writes:2 months ago I met a man online that lived a few hours from me. We ended up talking on the phone every day.He told me was single at first but a few weeks later I found out he had a baby girl and I asked him if he was married but he told me he was seperated. He came to meet me 1 month ago and we got very close and spent the night together. It was special for both of us.One month later I confronted him on the phone and asked him if he was still married because I thought he was making a lot of excuses for not being able to come and see me on weekends and at first he said no but a few days later he admitted he was married.I wasn't angry just really sad and torn. I became very attached to him, he told me he loved me and I was his best friend. I believed I had a future with this man and I loved him too.His wife now knows about what happened between us.I had a friend tell her on the phone because I could not bring it to do it myself and now I can't imagine what is going on between them. I feel so guilty. I know his wife deserves to know but part of me feels like I betrayed him for telling her. I know that sounds wrong. Please help.
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reader, kellyxxx  +, writes (30 April 2009):
 You have not betrayed him in anyway, he was cheating on his wife and you did a very noble thing! If I was his wife I would have really appreciated that information, imagine how many other affairs he could have been having and his poor wife would have been oblivious if it wasn't for you. I admire you for telling her and I'm sure she is greatful! Xxxxxx
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