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male
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I've been insanley in love (well, more limerence) with this woman over a year now, but I haven't been able to tell her due to our current situations. But soon she's going to be leaving work to go and live over the other side of the world.I have a phone number and everything but it's not like we're best friends or anything. Even so it's not like I'm going to see her everyday. However much I love her if I tell her it would put her unbelievable pressure and I just can't do that to her.How do you get over someone like that? I'm obsessed with her. I haven't gone two days for the past 10 months without talking to her. I know that sounds irritating and I am irritating but she doesn't seem to mind it. Everytime I try to avoid her it kills me inside. I can't bare to think about the day she goes. What do I do?!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2008): honestly, you can't kill yourself.you should let this woman know how you feel without pressurizing her.you really shouldn't go on living your life with this secret.let her know how u feel b4 she leaves and you'd feel so much better.that's what i think.
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reader, Emajayne  +, writes (8 April 2008):
 hmm thats a tricky one u have there. Being the silly age that i am (16 going on 17 extremely soon) i cant really say much, but this issue draws attention to me cause i see this happen all the time to friends of mine and their friends and just people all over my school. Have you ever thought to ask how she feels about...guys...in general. Is she married???? is she single, seeing anyone. She is probably single cause u would have said something surely if u knew. Time is a great healer but it hurts the most. It's like rubbing salt on a scrape. I think when she moves away u will eventually readjust to not seeing her every day. u can still call her. thats not ignoring :) there are ways to cope with this. You are a young guy and i bet there are tones of girls who would just KILL to have u. but this is all assuming she doesnt like u back. i completely agree with u on not telling her how u feel because that would be really really occward and hard for her to cope with. But i suggest u find out where she stands on the whole romance scale without giving anything away. dont enlist the help of a fellow colegue...they always tell.
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