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30-35,
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writes:okay, i recently got back with my ex who i dated on and off since august...we reached a point in december when we quit talking so 6 months later he contacts me wanting to talk, I was so happy without him but somehow he suckers me into talking to him again. I want to be able to tell him no! when he contacts me again cuz he got distant so i ended it. He will talk to me again i know this for a fact but how do I tell him no! without falling for him again and getting hurt. I dont want him back in my life and he was my first bf..im 14..hes 16..at one point he really cared but that only happens for a lil while til he fucks everything up. I cannot deal with him at all anymore like i hate him, but i never have enough power to tell him this. I end up falling for him and getting hurt again=/ any help here?id really appreciate this soo much
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reader, ~Prissy~ +, writes (17 June 2008):
yeah the same thing happened to me. im also 14 and the guy i fell for is also 16. we keped breaking up and getting back. but i got tired of it. i really liked him but i knew i wasent ganna be with him like that for ever so i had to end it. i dident know how. so when he called me i explained to him wat wuz on my mind and told him it had to end for good. and if u dont think u can do that then just dont answer when he calls and try to forget him.
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