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Taking a break...

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Question - (17 January 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 18 January 2009)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

We have been together for 7 months. we were doing so great!!! but things happened and he want to juvi for a day becasue he got caught tagging. but he says he needs space,time to think. he thinks he's bad for me and he says he sould let me go so i could have a better life and find someone better for me. he doesnt realize that i love him too much and my feeling for him will never go away. i asked him if he still loves me, he says he's not sure. but he keeps changing his mind. he says he wil still call me and we can be friends and talk everyday. he will still see me. but i dot think he knows what he wants. i asked him if he could stop all this and lets make up and go back the same way we were a two days ago. he said he will think about it. after we got of the phone he said he loves me and he's still my baby. i dot know if he's really going to let me go and ignore me or take me back and say im sorry.

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A male reader, Mr frosty United States +, writes (18 January 2009):

well im not sure, im a tagger and was especially active when i was dating a girl on and off for around 3 years. i have had the same feelings as him before, the confusion and that whole thing. atleast from my experience the best thing to do is give him a little encouragement, because when i went through that experience i still did like the girl alot, i was just confused about where our relationship was going.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2009):

What u have to do is ask him what it is he wants, it's not fair how he can just say one thing and then say something else. If he loves u he wouldn't be switching up on u like that. He either loves u or he's just playing with u. Yes, I know that sounds pretty harsh, but if u love and respect urself u'll do what's best for u. Plus, do u really want a boyfriend who is getting sent to juvi? Can u really see urself with him?

Their will be many guys to come. I'm sure. Hopefully I helped..

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2009):

juvi? tagging?

You'll have to explain what those words mean because I haven't a clue!

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