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female
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36-40,
*zrlinz
writes:Hey Aunts.I have a short question. Me and my boyfriend live together, and had a party last night. I invited one of our mutual friends (who happens to be his ex girlfriend from like 5 years ago-not serious or anything)and she told him she didn't want to come cause she didn't want to get ready and didn't look good enough to meet new people. He told her she will look good no matter what, that he was bummed that she wasn't coming, that it would make his day if she came, and that she would have to make his day another time then if she wasn't going to come. He was extremely drunk at this time, even though thats not really an excuse. We have been together for 2.5 years, and I know he loves me and is with me.. but does this sound like he has feelings for her? We just got back in touch with her after not talking to her for over a year... so maybe he just wanted to see a good friend. Help!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 January 2009): Only your boyfriend knows what’s going on in his head, your best move would be to encourage him to hang out with her. I’d suggest if you are friendly with her, a double date. That would keep it from being awkward and keep him grounded as a guy out with two women might feel like the king of the world.
If you are in question and need help, don’t sit back, push forward. Get them together, but on your terms and see how things go. After you hang out see how everyone feels afterwards and go from there.
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