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writes:There is this girl I know. She introduced herself to me online and at first I brushed off as nothing because there's weird people online. But as I got to know her through messaging and found out she goes to my school, we started talking in person and on the phone a lot. I know she wanted to ask me out 2 months ago, but it wasn't a good time for me. We've gotten close in these past 2 months and I helped her get through a hard part of her life. I want to ask her out now but I'm nervous that she doesn't want go out with me anymore. I don't want to live life with regrets but I don't want to alienate her by having feelings she may no longer have for me.Should I take the chance and ask her out? Reply to this Question
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (19 February 2008):
 You can ask her out for coffee or tea, or dinner or just stroll in the park or shopping malls.
Suggest something to her and then ask if she likes to go where.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionUpdate.Well I was sick all last week and couldn't ask her out. Should I ask her out for this Friday? And if so what should we do?
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reader, Laura1318 +, writes (13 February 2008):
If you don't try , you will never know.You have nothing to lose but everything to gain.Give your best shot.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2008): You've nothing to loose by as asking her out. You know she likes you, you like her so I say go for it :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2008): Honey, life is for living, and you sound like you get on great, so ask her out! If she wanted to be together then, and she's grown even closer to you, then chances are she still feels the same way. It's natural to worry about it, but I mean, if she alienates me, it can always be sorted out. That is, if you want it sorted, even if she's willing to just drop you and your whole past together over one thing. But that's beside the point... So yeah, I'd go for it if I were you! Plus, it's nearly Valentine's day, so even better. Go for it honey!
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reader, ozzyhayley  +, writes (13 February 2008):
 This girl must know how much you care for her if you was there for her in a hard part of her life an if she don't then you should let her know. She is probley feeling the same.Go for it!Good luck xx
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