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male
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:i am a married man 35yrs and am attracted to my female office clerk aged 22 yrs who is married for the last one year.we both are together in office for 8 hrs. is it okk to have sex with her regularly and how to attract towards me. pls advice.
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reader, DrPsych  +, writes (24 August 2008):
 Yes, of course it is fine to have sex with her...probably some room on the photocopier right? After all, you hate your job so much that you don't mind losing it when your boss finds out, and you don't mind your colleagues thinking you are a sleazy pervert with no morals or professional integrity. You hate your wife too right? What's all those years of marriage worth when you can have a bunk up in the stationary cupboard...mind the tippex. You don't need us aunts and uncles to tell you how to attract this girl...your dazzling charm and personality will do the trick.
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (24 August 2008):
 No, it is not okay to have sex with your clerk. She is married, you are married. If you are her boss, it is even MORE inappropriate to do ANYTHING that indicates that you want to sleep with her. This will put her in a very difficult position, as she wants to keep her job. Don't become a creep, a man who forces women to have sex to keep their jobs. That is a lifeform that ranks below pond scum.
My guess is that a 22-year-old woman who is a newlywed would want nothing to do with a man who has a wife, she may consider you as too old anyway.
If you want to have exciting sex, go home and figure out new ways to play with your wife in bed.
Good luck.
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reader, aka ms phoenix +, writes (24 August 2008):
 Ok, something is missing. You are a married man 35yrs and "attracted" to a female office clerk aged 22 yrs who is married for the last one year. Does she know? Have you had sex? Actually, it doesn't sound like she is attracted to you. I think you may be mistaking being friendly as something else. This is wrong so don't do it. Limit your interaction with this person and get back into your wife...she IS attracted to you.
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reader, aphexinfinite +, writes (24 August 2008):
 what !! your both married it would be cheating on your partners i feel sorry for them that your thinking of having an affair!! no its not ok but maybe where you are from its ok but i doubt it!! talk things out with your wife because their is problems before you want to have sex elsewhere.. good luck aphex
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