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writes:Hi all, I've recently sort of expressed my feeling to this girl(while she initiated cuz she kept on pushing me to tell her my feeling to her). Before I told her I was always the one that dominated the relationship (so called friendship back then). After that she all of a sudden wants to stop for a while and of course I got so frustrated cuz she didn't say it out for 2 weeks (while being very distanced with me over that two weeks),(well the difference is obvious, back then we have like 7 sms each way per day, and last two weeks we only averaged 1 sms per day each way) then her msn name is now Stupid huggerI was just wondering what hugger means?? Does it mean I'm too clingy to her?? I feel sorry but I know all I can do is not to contact her and hoping she'll call me again.Damn took me a while to get her spark going, and now I just ruin it with my stupid personality. I could've just given her a bit more time and not pushed...Yeh I just want to know what she's thinking and what STUPID HUGGER means...Thanks everyone.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2009): You are just fine the way you are....be yourself and love will find you. She wanted to know how you felt..and when you told her...she backed away. Could be because she now doesn't quite know what she wants. Sorry, women can be fickle sometimes. She obviously really likes you as you are, as you sms each other so regularly. So you have made an impression. I think you should do what you said...just back off and let her come to you. Then you will really know she wants you. Be cool and love will come to you. If she doesn't come to you then she wasn't meant for you...someone else better will follow! Be patient.
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reader, littletigle11  +, writes (20 April 2009):
 Hey for starters, it's not you.
"I've recently sort of expressed my feeling to this girl(while she initiated cuz she kept on pushing me to tell her my feeling to her)"
She pushed you. As you say.
At least you've been honest and all you did was what she asked.
She know's now, and well let her think it over.
I don't want to read anymore of "and now I just ruin it with my stupid personality. I could've just given her a bit more time and not pushed..." because that's hardly fair blaming yourself. Ok?
It's a bit of a controdiction anyway...
Back to your main question.
"Stupid Hugger" might not even be directed towards you.
But is could mean, she can't hug, whoever she's on about, can't hug.
Or like you say it could route deeper, as if hugger does mean clingy.
You should just ask her. On MSN, just say "Stupid Hugger?" and it should mark a response/explaination.
Hope this helps.
(gods some women, they ask you to do something then penalize you when you do...I don't get it, lol)
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