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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Me and "Joe" dated for almost 4 years. He broke up with me a couple of different times, until it was final. A few months later he starts talking to me again. He said he didn't want to be in the relationship anymore because it wasn't fun any more and all we were doing was fighting all the time. Now, over a year later we are still "friends" I'm never sure of how he feels about me, I obviously still love him. He always seems to blame me for arguments we have, and he doesn't treat me all that I wish he would, but we aren't official or anything. I just don't know what to do because I still have feelings for him, but I do try to hang back because I don't want to get hurt. I know I deserve better, but it is so hard to let go. I am 22, so I know that I don't have to move fast or anything, but I feel like 5 years is a long time and I am wanting more and more to be more settled down...Any suggestions about anything?
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2008): This might sound hard and not what you want to hear, but I suggest you break all contact with this guy. As long as he is around you will not heal and move on to meet somebody else, as deep inside you are living with the hope that things will work out for the two of you. You have already wasted 5 years, don't waste anymore.
Get out there and find the right guy to settle with!
Good luck!
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