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writes:I,m stuck in a rut. I have no love life, no job, hardly any money and christmas is around the corner!!! 1. lovelife: I,ve never had a boyfriend before I,ve dated 1 guy but we never officially became a couple. I just assumed I was boring him thats why he never texted back.2. Job: I,ve aplied for heaps of jobs and had so many interviews but I,ve never had a call back. I dress well, I have experience but I just cant seem to get it.3. Money: I get in or around 100 a week and thats gone in the one day on rent and food. I never have enough money to go out with my friends and I don't have a car. I,m stuck in a rut and I don't know what to do. any suggestions?
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reader, aunt honesty +, writes (21 October 2011):
 1. I can see why you don't have a love life if you are not going out and socialising. It must make it hard for you to meet someone if you just don't have the opportunity to meet anybody new. Maybe your friends might know some guys who they could set you up with, why not talk to them and ask them, you never know.
2. It is hard at the moment to find work I can completely understand that. But don't give up. Keep looking. Why not try and get in to a course or something for unemployed people. Look in to work experience courses. Yes it may not pay good money but it will get you out of the house and meeting new people. It will give you routine and more experience in certain work areas. Who knows you may even find guys there your own age who could be a future potential boyfriend, you never know.
3. As for money, well it is tough times at the moment and it is hard getting work. Maybe you could look for work outside of your area if you are prepared to move or maybe you could put up an add for people who are looking for baby sitters or even someone who is looking for a dog sitter or even a helping hand around there home. This could be ways of making extra cash for yourself. Just throw some adds up around the shops and businesses near you.
There is also the option of moving away and looking for work abroad somewhere. Maybe working on a cruise ship or as an air hostess. Depending on what experience you have there may be something that you could do. There are quite a few working abroad holidays. Why not talk to a career guidance counsellor and see what is out there or even go to a recruitment agent. But no matter what just don't give up.
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