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Stress is affecting sex with my wife, why am I so negative in life?

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Question - (17 April 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 17 April 2010)
A male India age 51-59, *nmeer writes:

I always lost out in my life be it be the studies or any thing ,married for over 12 yrs 2 kids and a very att wife i get alot upset when i think about my future my business is not as good as i want though the people around me find me very sucessfull but i know that i am not winning.This negative attitude is even showing on my sex life ,i only get aroused when i think of my wife in bed with someone though iam very active and my wife feels that she is fully satisfied with me but still now it has become a habbit to hear a sexy story from my wife during lovemaking.i am confused that what is happening to me why i have become so negative in life.

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A female reader, janniepeg Canada +, writes (17 April 2010):

janniepeg agony auntOn the outside you are very successful. You like to be responsible to people closest to you. Maybe you neglected yourself. Take a day off just for yourself and find out what you like to do. Just forget about family, business for a day. If you have only one day to live, by yourself, what would you do for fun? Go to the nature to refresh your mind.

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A male reader, unwind United States +, writes (17 April 2010):

sounds like you need therapy . . . I am not saying this in a joking manner, but it is something you should consider. It can help more than you imagine, as long as you find the right therapist.

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (17 April 2010):

Laura1318 agony auntWhether you want to be negative or positive lies with your tongue.

If you always speak in the negative, you will only attract the negative things.

You need to speak in a more positive way and you need to change your negative attitude to a positive attitude.

Really focus on the positive aspects in your life.

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