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writes: I am 14 i have just broken up with my boyfriend of a year n i no i still love him but i dont feel i want us get back together.the boy i shared my first kiss with has now started to text me and we have been flirting alot what do i do cuz i no i still love my ex n he wanta us 2 get back together but i no i like dis other boy aswell what shall i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2006): You are 14, you do not need a boyfriend,you need friends. I know you are confused, but at your age you ought to be able to have a friendship with both boys without the other getting mad at you, tell them you are just both of their friends and you do not want to be tied down to either one of them, and if you kiss them it is a sign of affection and that is it for you, you care, but you need to live your own life and have the freedom to do so.
This is the only way to avoid drama in your life, be who you are without either of the boys telling you what you should or should not be doing, or who you should be dating or be with...it is your decision to make, not theirs.
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