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writes:Hey guys, whats up? well im 19 years old, and i have a problem. About two years ago i was on a site like match.com and i met a girl through the internet. We started talkin online, and then on the phone as well. It got to a certain point where i didnt care about what she looked like..and i fell in love with her for who she was and what i knew of her through the phone. Well she lives in florida and i live in new york. Now keep in mind that we have been a "couple" for about 2 years now and i still havent met her. i tried on countless occasions to try to meet her, and each time she gave me an excuse of why she couldnt meet me, or why it wont work out. she also tells me how her family doesnt really allow her to date around, and be with guys. she is 21 by the way.So my question is this..i kno i love her, and i kno i want to be with her, but i feel as if she is trying to hide something from me, and she is like playing games with me. how d i come about dealing with this, should i just drop her and forget about her (which will be hard) or should i give it more time..which i gave 2 years already..im just soo lost..oh yeah, every time i try to talk to her about meeting and anything of that nature, she gets upset, accuses me of thinkin she is a liar, and she just shrubs it off..i just want to be with this girl cuz i kno i love her..plz help guys :(
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 January 2009): give her a suprise visit! ITS THE ONLY WAY DUDE!
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reader, siamaq18 +, writes (13 January 2009):
 I think that the girl is probably a ugly girl, maybe she's fat or something and she don't wanna meet you because she's gonna be ashamed of herself and shes afraid to lose the chemistry you guys have, despite you saying you love her, I don't think you love her, because you know that you love somebody when you spend time with that person as in not on the phone only, but in person,and you love that person when you figure that person out, which takes more than just having a daily conversation on the phone, sometimes we say that we don't care how a person looks, but it all depends on the extent to how bad a person really looks. And you guys don't have no relationship, I would call that a phone friend. I think that you should try to find some girl out here in NY, remember pictures do lie and not all blind date turns out to be the best.Good Luck.
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