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writes:On this Valentines Day I find myself between relationships, and this day is not exactly a happy day for me. I am a true romantic at heart and this is the first Valentines in a while I’ll be spending alone. I’m sure I’m not the only one that feels this way. It’s actually hurting now, that dry empty feeling…like the day I broke with my ex. MY question is to those of you in the same boat…How do you get through this day?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2008): you get as many tubs of ice cream, big bars of chocolate, cakes and sweets and booze if you drink as you can carry. have other single friends over. maybe watch a film. have as much fun as you possibly can. and laugh until you cheeks hurt!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2008): well i have always been single like i said to some other guy count yer blessings.how do i cope?simple have fun and forget your problems no not by drinking or anything else just by being happy its a holiday a day to enjoy thats why it was made so enjoy yourself but ya i definetley know that physical pain that goes with that horrible emotional agony i pray and hope thats pretty much all iv got
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2008): I am sorry you feel unhappy, on this day. There are many single folks who are spending this day alone. Many of them feeling blue, many of not giving a care--it's like any other day of the week. I find a sense of humor helps get you through it. I have a good friend, who is single again and she made me laugh. I was in her office and I looked at her work calender on the wall. All the days in February are marked off with appts and tasks. But on February 14, she took a red marker ans wrote in big block letters "Evil Day"....lol Everyone that has seen that, admires her for her resilience and good humor at getting through a day, a lot of single folks do dread. How you cope with today will depend on your attitude and strength of mind, to accept it and make a goal that next Valentine's Day, you will share this day with someone else. Why don't you treat yourself to some good self-love for a change. Treat yourself to something special. A nice steak dinner out with some single buddies, maybe a cold beer or two? Sometimes spending a day like this with other single friends, is a great way to cope. Either you all cry into your drinks together or you just say "to heck with it' and share a good laugh or two. Just make the best of it, with a positive attitude..and better times will come. Good Luck.
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