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writes:I've been thinking a lot lately...this man I'll call Edward really likes me and has mentioned marriage and kids both jokingly and seriously. I like him but, I made sure not to get too close...he's turning forty this year and I'm nineteen. He lives six hours away, and since he never asked me to be his girlfriend, I started seeing this guy I'll call Alejandro. Crazy about Alejandro now and we cant go too long without seeing each other, hes very sweet to me. Edward touches me though, I feel like I could luv him if i let myself. But, I'm bothered. Edward wants me to be his girlfriend, sees me as a potential wife and Alejandro...I know he cares for me but he's never said anything about having something serious. I have dreams of Alejandro...dreams of Edward and having his children... What do I do? I'm spending time with Edward right now, Al doesnt know and he misses me. I'm not sleeping with Edward though, I refuse to since I agreed to be monogamous with Al... Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks guys, thought a lot about what you said and I agree. I'm going to think about myself for a while...these guys are complicating my life too much! Thanks again for your time and advice. xx
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (29 June 2010):
Neither man is right for you. If you ever have trouble choosing, it means that neither choice is right, and there is a third elsewhere that is. I think you need to spend time alone, focusing on yourself and your own life.
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