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41-50,
anonymous
writes:There's probably no way I can post this question without you thinking I'm insecure or irrational.I don't consider myself to be either, in relationships I definately like my space and the biggest problem I have come up against is ex's not giving me any space in a relationship. I'm quite independant and need my own time with family/friends, combined with spending time with my boyfriend.So here goes. I've been dating my boyfriend 2 months. We dated last year for 3 months when he became very ill and almost died - he needed time to find himself again and fix himself, so we ended on good terms. He looked me up a little while back, been inseperable ever since.Until about a week ago. How do you go from someone wanting to see you every other day or so, texting lovely things and calling you often, to receiving one call a day, if that?When I see him, he's the same. Loving and caring and seemingly so into me. But the texting and calling came to such an abrupt stop!I did ask him, and he said he didn't realise. It actually makes me feel quite insecure when I'm not with him...Then when I see him I feel 110% better...Then he cycle repeats.We had a make or break conversation, about whether we want the same thing in the future. I told him I would rather end now than stay together wanting different things. He strongly protested in us breaking up and agreed we do want the same things.Argh...So confused, emotional rollercoaster...Sometimes I feel like walking away even though I do very much love him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 September 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThat was a bit callous as he was ill LAST year. It's been over a year, I was giving background to our relationship and how we got back together.
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