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writes: I am happy with my boyfriend for 4 years, we are happy there are also lots of things we enjoy to do..We also plan for our future but sometimes i don't feel love when he doesn't kiss or hug me,and no sweet words came from him when he is busy...When i'm alone sometimes i want to cry because there are things i expect him to do..Please help me, i just want to be happy but why is that sometimes i feel im not inloved.
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reader, perky  +, writes (2 January 2007):
 i think the same to let him know wat u want him to do sum men r the same sum arnt just remember that no one is the same so tell him how u want it to be if u want a kiss wen hr gets back from work if u wanna be cuddled wen u go to bed say or if not u make the move c if that chsanges him and mayeb he will think hey hold on but talk ti him first bout how u want it and if still no change hint in ways or u just make the move first so he gets the hint communitcation is the key to a gd relationship so do it before u lose feelongvs or sumthing bad happens just dont hold bak wat u want changin ope i helped and may the new year solve ur problem let us know if we helped x
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reader, Lilly223  +, writes (2 January 2007):
 Listen, men weren't born with a mind reading gene. And yes, sometimes they can be insensitive dolts, especially after four years in a relationship, but in order for you to get what you want out of this relationship, you need to speak up. Most men would bend over backwards trying to please someone they love, unfortunately, they often need a 'list' to remember all this stuff. Men don't think like women do. They are one tracked... get to work, get the job done, eat, watch the game.... Oh yeah! there's my girlfriend, pay attention to her, sleep. So I would suggest that you explain to him, you would feel so much better about everything with a few simple changes from him, such as kissing you goodbye before he leaves for work, a swat on the bottom when you're cooking dinner, maybe just hold your hand or snuggle you while watching the game... little things like this would probably make a huge difference in how you are feeling. I bet he would be willing to make these small changes if he knew you needed them. Guys are often clueless, (through no fault of thier own) until you clue them in.
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