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female
age
36-40,
*sabella1987
writes:I feel so disappointed right now.Me and my boyfriend live together for 2 years. Some time he show me he love me and sometime he don't even care what happen to me. When he don't care about me like that I going crazy. I got mad,(angry extreamly),cry and stuff. He think I need profetional help and he think I'm crazy. I told him how I feel, he laugh about it. Some time he think like a women. He know how women think and art.But he told me I'm his first girl and he never make love with nobody.He is 28 years old man(when we met,now he is 30).I ask him if you never had girl before how you know about women are. He said he took a class before (communition class).I never take that class before so, I don't know about it.Well, So I don't know what to do now.Break up with him or try to work it out.Please HELP! Reply to this Question
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reader, curiousgirl32382 +, writes (30 September 2009):
 Well first off by no means am I a professional, but I did take a communications class in coll. and it was not the type of class that would educate you on how a man or woman is. First off it sounds like your boyfriend might be the one who needs a little help. Women are emotional that is how we express ourselves. Our partners are suppose to be understanding and caring. If he really loves you then first off he would not laugh at you. I have been with my high school sweet heart for 11 years married for 7 and there are times when we are lovely dovey with each other and then there are times when I will say OMG we haven't kissed in a couple of days. We are out of that honeymoon stage but still I get mad at him and go crazy on him and there is times when I cry but he don't laugh at me he sits with me and we talk about it. I know you have two years invested in this relationship and yous live together that is hard to throw away.. So I suggest you to sit down and discuss it..everything..tell him from the begining this is serious..tell him what you want ask him what he wants compromise, give it a try that is both of you agree. Give it a trial period two weeks no matter how bad the two weeks are get through it, at the end determine if this is something you want long term or pack your things and play the field. You know how some guys can be they slack off on the romance...sometimes they just need a reminder a good kick in the butt to get them moving again. Couple so often after a while they get to comfortable with each other "like your both stuck, this is it" its not...
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