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writes:okay so i know alot of peolpe are goin to think me and my girlfriend are to young but we feel that we are ready for sex.so im very nervous and have a few questions and im hoping for some good answers please and thank you.okay so my first question is its my first time and im worried about not being able to hold long enough and not being able to give her a orgasam should i be worried about this?also are there any other ways to help give her an orgasam.my second question is there a certin size my penis should be before im able to pleasure her?and what exactly is foreplay?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 July 2008): You present as aged 13-15 (underage) and currently living in the USA. You are too young for sex and you don't even know where to start. You want sex, why, what do you think it will achieve. If you don't know about foreplay you are definately too young, and not ready at all. You should be expert in this before you begin to even think about anything else. Are you also lacking knowledge about sexual diseases and pregnancy and how to keep yourself and your girlfriend safe? I'm afraid I can't provide you with advice, except to say, please stick to kisses and cuddles instead.
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reader, PsyCookie +, writes (14 July 2008):
 Ok, I will answer your questions and then you'll get your lecture. Just be aware that not many people think you're ready, including me, because you're just 13, well below legal concsent and well below emmotional and physical matureness.
You will probably not give her an orgasm the first time you have sex with her and you shouldn't worry. It happens to most everyone. Also, the size of your penis doesn't even matter for her pleasure. It's actually how thick your penis is, but the vagina adjustes itself to the guy size.
Foreplay is physical stimulation before sex. There are many things you could try in a foreplay and this will likely make her go to climax.
Now your lecture. Really think about what you're doing. You're 13, and she must be your age or even younger. You're below the age of legal conscent and you might even end up going to jail if your girlfriend's parents tell on you.
Now, you say you're ready to have sex with her, but I say this is bull. You just say that "you're ready" only because you WANT to have sex with her. Now, really analize the whole posibilities of having sex. Would you be ready to be a father if your girlfriend gets pregnant? Even when people wear a condom, there's a chance of pregnancy. Would you be ready to stop your education, find a job, and sustain your child? And the burden of bills and perentship? Would you be ready for her rejection and emotional unstableness, which will likely happen?
I bet there are may things to think of that some aunties will tell you. Kid, think this many times and you know, why don't you wait for her until you both are of legal conscent? If you truely love her and if you truely are ready for sex, then you can wait for it. At least a that age people will not judge you so harshly
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