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writes:I like 2 guys well Aleast I think I like one of I'm not sure. The 1st guy I did like but it turned out that he was a big jerk with a big ego to match, but the truth is I still a tiny bit like him. The 2nd Guy is his freind and He is really sweet quiet, funny, he makes me laugh and I think he likes me, but I'm not sure. I don't know what to do about this see I asked the 1st guy out and he said no so I was and still a little bit heart-broken about that, and I asked out that 2nd guy and He said well I don't really know he so um no, but the thing is he dose know me and I think the 1st guy said something to the 2nd guy. So what sould I do about the 2nd guy, I really like him and I would like to go-out with him he lives 2 houses down from me and School is almost over so can anyone please help me so I can stay in touch with him over summer? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2008): I can't choose, you can't decide to date someone because some stranger tells you. You must choose, and if you can't then your too young to be dating.
I can however, make things clearer to use by telling you what I understand your choices to be.
Guy One: Big jerk with a big ego to match but someone you like a tiny bit. You asked him out, he said no, he wasn't interested.
Guy Two: Is really sweet quiet, funny, he makes you laugh and you think he likes you, but your not sure. You asked him out, he wasn't sure, he "ummed and ahahed", so he maybe interested but he isn't actually keen and dying to be with you because your the love of his life.
You want to stay in touch with guy two. Well he dosen't seem interested in romance, maybe you should aim for friendship instead.
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reader, honkifuluvnicole +, writes (2 June 2008):
 Hmm this is a bit of an odd situation.
The 1st guy sounds terrible and is probably going to treat you poorly if you do choose him.
And the 2nd guy, he may act all sweet and funny to you, but to turn you down like that, not cool.
Seeing as he does know you and going on a date is the way to get to know someone.
Im sorry to say, but I think you should just ditch the feelings for both guys, and go for a new one. One that doesn't treat you poorly or anything like those two guys.
Best of luck.
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