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anonymous
writes:
I have recently joined a new sports club and have met a woman who I like a
lot - we get on well, always laugh together and never run out of things to
say. I find myself very attracted to her and cannot get her out of my head
(this is very unusual for me!)
We have both split from long term relationships in the last year or so, and
the woman has recently lost a family member in the last year.
My problem is really how to make my feelings known to her without a)
appearing to be stalking / leching, b) feeling like I would be possibly
taking advantage of her potentially vulnerable position c) losing the chance
for continued friendship and d) looking like an idiot :)
Also, clearly as this is a social club, there are many other people around:
therefore I feel it is wrong to spend all my time talking to her /
monopolising her attention (see stalking above), while equally I do not wish
to seem as if I am not interested and ignoring her.
Any thoughts you could offer on this would be greatly appreciated.
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reader, harshbutfair  +, writes (20 April 2005):
 Ask her to meet for lunch one day. That keeps it friendly. If things go well, invite her for dinner. Carry on from there.
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