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writes:I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years. Im 21 he is my first boyfriend. We are really good together, we always have a good time and we barely have discussions. BUT lately when he is not around I really start thinking if He is The One. I can only see him on the weekends now. We both love each other. But i think that the little things that bother me about him are starting to pile up. He isn't a good phone talker and I find myself thinking why did I even called him? It's weird because I really think about maybe ending it. But when I see him again, im back in paradise.Help? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionPlease I would like more people to write their opinions!
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (30 August 2012):
 I think the distance that has been created around you both now is putting pressure on the relationship. Not being able to see each other until the weekends sometimes can be a good thing but at the minute it seems to be putting distance between you both especially if he is not good at talking on the phone. There is no point in judging him on this, and taking it as a personal insult because there are many people that hate talking on the phone. Have you both got web cameras? If so then make a point of using that to talk to each other or even send each other messages. If you are having doubts about the relationship then there is obviously something going wrong and you should talk to him about that and see how he feels.
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