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writes: Hi all.Was with my girlfriend/fiancee for nearly 2 years. The last few months have been hard, my business isnt doing as well as it did in the past and money seems to be getting tighter every month. I knew all this was happening and have been pretty stressed out, and thus i think sometimes i was taking it out on her. She went to live with a friend at the weekend and took most of her stuff but is coming back for the rest of it tommorow. I did text her last night to ask if we could talk etc but i didnt get a reply, so i left it that.Gutting thing is, she moved here to be with me, we had the house, both had jobs and everything was going ok untill this "bad patch" just ruined things.Not finding it easy to deal with really, i dont have many friends, sleepless nights, not eating much, drinking, i just feel totally down all the time and i know i shouldnt say it but ive also had thoughts of suicide, though i dont think i would do this as it would destroy my family.I know its going to take ages to get over her and im not looking forward to feeling like this for ever how long it takes....
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reader, tux  +, writes (28 March 2006):
 This is a tough situation. There's a lot of things that can harm a relationship. Financial stress is a big one. Unfornately, you took it out on her even if it wasn't her fault and made her feel hurt. Hopefully the two of you can talk tommorrow and work it out, but I wouldn't count on it.. just talk to her about things and I would say even apologize for treating her so badly. but if things don't work out.. leave things as friendly as you can.
But keep your head up and good luck..
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 March 2006): Well letting your life and work slip now will not only put a complete end to your relationship youve got at the moment or just lost ... but will also mess up most your chances of not only being happy in yourself but also in any other future relationship you have ... you really need to concentrate on yourself and being happy in and with yourself.
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