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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:At my age, I don't have a boyfriend and I'm a pretty girl. Please tell me, is this normal? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2010): Society needs to let go of all the ideas tied to the myth that is "normalcy." What is normal for you may not be what is normal for me. If you've never had a boyfriend rejoice that you've avoided many of it's emotional and physical pitfalls that you may have witnessed from your friends or parents relationships.
Concentrate on bettering yourself and being happy single. You've survived this long. Learning and developing more of yourself will ultimately make you a better person and future mate. I think all too often girls are obsessed with the idea of love and not necessarily finding one person who really "gets" them. I'm 19 and I know I've only met one guy whom I felt I was compatible with. Be selective, don't just let any boyfriend or relationship define and complete you. Only two wholes make a healthy relationship.
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (3 July 2010): Yes of course it's normal. People in our society start dating much too young. There are always online websites that help busy people find love. But you're still young, I wouldn't worry too much. Everyone is lovable as long as they love back. Best.
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male
reader, anonymous, writes (3 July 2010): you might be so beautiful that you intimidate guys.
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