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writes:Hi !I have 15 years old and i have a problem! My problem is that my school guys are always trying to "catch me", that makes me feel pretty and hot and thats great but you now what they say: "behind clothes we can find a worse thing" and i think thats my case because those guys asked me one of these days to go to the pool with them (they never saw me in bikini and they have a wrong image of my body because i use to wear two bras at the same time and they dont now)and asked a friend of mine too , and the problem is that i am so ashamed of my body that i cant put on a bikini and go with them because im afraid that they reject me because im not hot , my friend she is really really developed and she has a great body (she is ugly but her body compensates her ugly face) and the guys want to make out with her because she is sooo hot! My body is so awful, im too skinny, i eat a lot and i cant put on some weight and im not developed and i dont know why, all my friends (maybe more than 90 girl friends) are all developed . That is shameful.So what can i do? I´ve always felt ashamed with my body and i want for they treat me like they used to treat. PLEASE HELP ME! Reply to this Question
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reader, laetitia  +, writes (20 June 2010):
 I have the same problem as you, but nowadays there are plenty of swim suits that can make your boobs look much bigger than they are. As the previous person suggested, you can even add or sue some extra padding and I have actually done that too! If you buy a swim suit that is quite busy with flowers or other kinds of decorations, it distracts the eye a bit from the actual cleavage part as well. About wearing double bras - don't worry, many of us have done it too on certain occasions. Also, you will discover that a lot of men are attracted to nice face and nice bum and relatively small breasts rather than big saggy ones!
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reader, person12345  +, writes (19 June 2010):
 From the way you describe it, it sounds like you're the only one who doesn't think you're attractive. Everyone else disagrees! There's more to hotness than big boobs. If you're super insecure you can buy some great bathing suits that will do wonders for a small chest, I have one and it looks unbelievable. You can also sew in cutlets (make sure they're sewn in cause them popping out would be humiliating). You could try one of those. Not because you're not attractive, but because it could give you confidence. And believe me, confidence is one of the sexiest things a woman can have. You really don't have to worry, guys are chasing after you and they know what you look like.
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reader, sunnycomet +, writes (19 June 2010):
 Don't feel ashamed. You are young and your body has not grown yet. I'm full grown and I am very slim with not much a figure. But I have a pretty face plus I smile alot. Which attracts many men and my fiance thinks I am the most beautiful girl in the world. :D
Stop thinking you are not pretty and think you are. Focus are you good points...and smile. You will not be able to get the guy's eyes off of u! :D
Good Luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 June 2010): Wear a swimming costume not a bikini perhaps
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