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female
reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2008): aww hun,
im in exactly the same position as you.
ive been with my bf for 3 months
& i was like absolutely petrified about stuff
like this. Yesterday i said to him next time we meet up can we pull? & we were talking about it all today & he was saying things like "well i heard its meant to be special the first time" & itss both of our first times & you know what im not worried atall now! so just talk to him about it it seems really scary & embaressing but its not! good luckk!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 March 2008): iHey
Don't worry
, the first Kiss always seems scary , But once its over with , you will want more !
Edge closer To The Boy with your head slightly tilted and yhor mouth slighly open ,
he shud then edge closer to you if he wanted to kiss you
let him make the moove !
Slip your tounge in and go with the flow
Brush yhor teeth first ! or have a chewing gum !
Hope this Helps x
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2008): Hey! I'm 13 - 14 in May - and i know exactly how you feel. I only had my first kiss/snog 5 days ago. It was in the movies, we kinda just looked at each other and then he started moving forward. It all comes really naturally, he'll probably slip in the tongue, so don't worry about that. Just keep your lips parted a bit, and go with it.
Hope it helps babe!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2008): Hiya... everyone has to have a first kiss sometime or another, when your ready just quitely tell the lad youve never kissed a girl before, im sure he'll understand because everyone has to go through it because im sure the lad was nervous about his first kiss! When your ready just go for it, your lips touch, open your mouth and im sure he'll take over! :P
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 March 2008): hi im 13 years old and have been going out with this boy for 3 months but i havnt pulled him or anything yet. he is really popular and has got of with loads of other girls before me. i keep putting it of and im really worried about what he thinks. help!
xox
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2008): hi im a 14 year old girl. 15 in 6 days loland i had my first kiss with my boyfriend when i was 13.He was 15. we'd been going out like 3 weeks before we actually kissed, (you dont have to wait that long though)and i was so nervous. He was walking me home. we were holding hands and i knew that night was going to be the night i was going to kiss him, So as we arrived at the bottom of the drive at my house. I put my arms around his neck and huggged him, as we were pulling away from the hug. i left my arms around his neck and we both looked into each others eyes. we both came closer and tilted our heads and our lips met, it was so easy, i couldnt believe i was so scared of that happening. well, he slipped his tongue into my mouth. so i just went with the flow. it was the best kiss ever. So i suggest you do what i did. Hug him with your arms around his neck and ayou pull away from the hug, keep your arms where they are and look into his eyes. and he wont be able to resist you lol.so go for it, dont be nervous and GOOD LUCK Hunnie. (: xxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2008): ok, so i hadn't snogged a guy before, neither had my BF. We'd only done our first kiss like the week before (and trust me i was so nervous before it, i was so freaked that i'd stuff up) but then we were in the car with his dad driving (so not real private :P ) and we were kissing then he just slipped his tounge into my mouth. After that i just went with it, havn't looked back :D
So good luck to all u's out there
it's not hard, just relax, don't have to much spit, and if u wana mix it up a bit run ur tounge over their teeth, or have like a lolly u can pass between each other when u snog. really fun that one ;)
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2008): hi im 14 and only snoogged a boy at the beginning of the year
the best thign to do is do it lonely just you and him
it makes it less nervous andd .. avoids any embarassing situaions
and it helps whenhe makes tha first move
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but member keep calm ..
GOOD LUCK XX
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2008): last night i had my first passionate kiss in ages. I wasnt even expecting it. I just looked the girl in the eyes and we went to just kiss and the next thing we knew, we were snogging!
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reader, Baybii Cloeey  +, writes (22 February 2008):
unfortuantly you can never be prepared for a snog it just happens... on your first kiss try to be relaxed and jus go with the flow basically (he might be thinking the same)and get to learn yours and his techniques... GOOD LUCK LOL ...
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 February 2008): unfortuantly you can never be prepared for a snog it just happens... on your first kiss try to be relaxed and jus go with the flow basically (he might be thinking the same)and get to learn how he like it GOOD LUCK LOL ...
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2008): well im 16 and i had my first snogg when i was 13 so dont worry!
all you need to do is talk to him about it or
if you want to seem like an expert try this!
...start by getting the "mood"
right wait for him to make the first move
slowly put both of your lips on his upper
or lower lip open you mouth slightley and
let him put his tounge in your mouth
and touch each others tounges and swirve
them about it is dead awkward at first
but then youll get the hang of it!
trust me i did that and im a tonsill tenis champ!
xxxxxxxx=)lolxxxxxxxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2008): Hi there- here is some information that will help you ;)
Kissing Explained
A first kiss should always be done while the two of you are alone. This will help to avoid any unnecessary nervousness and embarrassing situations.
The best type of kiss is one that uses different variations...
such as starting with a small kiss, working into a French Kiss, maybe sucking on your partner's upper or lower lip...
And don't just leave kisses to the lips.
Kiss their cheeks, their chin or their eyelids.
This can be very seductive and romantic.
Basic Kissing Tips
Great Breath - This is very important. Make sure you brush your teeth before going out on your date. There is nothing worse than kissing someone with bad breath.
If your date consists of having something to eat before the actual kiss, make sure you have a mint on hand to take right after you finish eating. Don't take the mint just before the kiss or chew on gum. You don't want to have something in your mouth when you kiss.
Moist Lips - You want your lips to be slightly moist when you kiss. Run your tongue over your lips once before you kiss. Don't wear lip gloss because that tends to make the kiss too gooey.
And don't wear a lot of lipstick unless you want your partner to wear it too after the kiss. Slightly moist lips makes it easier to move your lips over your partner's and gives both you and your partner a more pleasant experience.
Positioning - Stand close to your partner. As the two of you move closer together tilt your head slightly. If you can see which way your partner's head is tilting, tilt your head slightly in the opposite direction.
Close Eyes - Just before your lips meet, close your eyes. Some people prefer to leave their eyes open during the kiss. But until you know what your partner prefers, it is best to close your eyes.
Open Lips - Open your mouth slightly and place your lips over your partner's lips. Do not hold your breath! Breath through your nose. As your lips meet, press them gently over your partner's. You may wish to move your lips in a slow, circular motion or just leave them still over your partners.
Closed Lips - This is like the type of kiss you'd give your grandma or aunt. Instead of opening your mouth when your lips meet, keep them closed. This is also a good way of letting your partner know this is as far as it goes. It also makes a great hello/good-bye kiss or a great first time kiss if you're nervous.
French Kissing
This is the most popular type of kiss. This involves touching your tongue with your partner's and it can be quite a pleasant experience. There are a few tips to create a great french kiss.
Open Lips - Open your lips over your partner's slightly more than you would during a regular kiss. This makes it easier to place your tongue in your partner's mouth.
Tongue - Place the tip of your tongue on the tip of your partner's tongue. Do not force your tongue too far into their mouth. If you wish, you can play with their tongue by circling theirs with your own. Have fun with it. Explore.
Lips - You may explore different ways of using your tongue. Try running the tip of your tongue over your partner's lips. Do this slowly and gently, just using the tip of your tongue.
Suck Kissing
This can be a very seductive type of kiss. Instead of French Kissing with your mouth open, while your partner's lips are parted suck on their top our bottom lip with your own, just for a second or two. Then go back to another type of kiss or try the other lip.
Nip Kissing
This type of kiss has to be done carefully, but when done correctly can create a wonderful effect on your date. While suck kissing, gently bite their lip, but be VERY gentle so as not to hurt your date / partner. This kiss should only be done with someone that you've kissed a few times before, otherwise you may shock your partner.
Surprise Kissing
This type of kiss is done when your partner is lying down on a sofa or the ground, either asleep or just lying with their eyes closed. Quietly approach your partner and place a small, very gentle kiss on their lips. Intensify the kiss until your partner opens their eyes or awakens.
Just enjoy it :). Just think about showing your love to him! GOOD LUCK! :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2008): Hiiyah =) Am 14 and Never Snogged Only Kissed =) Am sure It will be Easy I usely Just Bite the Lip and Kiss and Cuddle :D Thats all !!!Good Luck with Your First Snog Hunni =)Stacey xxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2008): hi,I'm 11 and b4 tday,i was in ur position. It really due just come naturally, just open ur mouth, meet there lips n there u go.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2008): Well for starters all these big long lists of things you have to do are a loada bollocks really. Once you actually start kissing you wont even think about it, it will just happen. I was worried about my first snog but... it just comes naturally. all you have to remember is...
1. Tilt your head to opposite way to you partner or theyll end up with neck ache LOL
2. DONT get your teeth in the way.
Its that simple =]
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2008): well im 14 had a few bf's but never realli did anything with them. jus got a new boyfriend. hes gorgous and irish. lol. i was realli worried about snogging him and the whole situation. but when me and and my friends where at the cinema it all came naturally he kissed me i kissed him back it turned into a long kiss and our tounges just played with each other at the tips it wos realli lovely you just have to be yourself let ur worries go and it all feels right. dont worrie like i did because it made me worse. to be honest its not as bad as i thought the situation would be he was realli kind and new how i felt its easier if he knows that u aint experienced. because hes probably not to. remember everyone starts from somewhere thats how everyone learns. x x
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2008): A first kiss should always be done while the two of you are alone. This will help to avoid any unnecessary nervousness and embarrassing situations.
The best type of kiss is one that uses different variations...
such as starting with a small kiss, working into a French Kiss, maybe sucking on your partner's upper or lower lip...
And don't just leave kisses to the lips.
Kiss their cheeks, their chin or their eyelids.
This can be very seductive and romantic.
Basic Kissing Tips
Great Breath - This is very important. Make sure you brush your teeth before going out on your date. There is nothing worse than kissing someone with bad breath.
If your date consists of having something to eat before the actual kiss, make sure you have a mint on hand to take right after you finish eating. Don't take the mint just before the kiss or chew on gum. You don't want to have something in your mouth when you kiss.
Moist Lips - You want your lips to be slightly moist when you kiss. Run your tongue over your lips once before you kiss. Don't wear lip gloss because that tends to make the kiss too gooey.
And don't wear a lot of lipstick unless you want your partner to wear it too after the kiss. Slightly moist lips makes it easier to move your lips over your partner's and gives both you and your partner a more pleasant experience.
Positioning - Stand close to your partner. As the two of you move closer together tilt your head slightly. If you can see which way your partner's head is tilting, tilt your head slightly in the opposite direction.
Close Eyes - Just before your lips meet, close your eyes. Some people prefer to leave their eyes open during the kiss. But until you know what your partner prefers, it is best to close your eyes.
Open Lips - Open your mouth slightly and place your lips over your partner's lips. Do not hold your breath! Breath through your nose. As your lips meet, press them gently over your partner's. You may wish to move your lips in a slow, circular motion or just leave them still over your partners.
Closed Lips - This is like the type of kiss you'd give your grandma or aunt. Instead of opening your mouth when your lips meet, keep them closed. This is also a good way of letting your partner know this is as far as it goes. It also makes a great hello/good-bye kiss or a great first time kiss if you're nervous.
French Kissing
This is the most popular type of kiss. This involves touching your tongue with your partner's and it can be quite a pleasant experience. There are a few tips to create a great french kiss.
Open Lips - Open your lips over your partner's slightly more than you would during a regular kiss. This makes it easier to place your tongue in your partner's mouth.
Tongue - Place the tip of your tongue on the tip of your partner's tongue. Do not force your tongue too far into their mouth. If you wish, you can play with their tongue by circling theirs with your own. Have fun with it. Explore.
Lips - You may explore different ways of using your tongue. Try running the tip of your tongue over your partner's lips. Do this slowly and gently, just using the tip of your tongue.
Suck Kissing
This can be a very seductive type of kiss. Instead of French Kissing with your mouth open, while your partner's lips are parted suck on their top our bottom lip with your own, just for a second or two. Then go back to another type of kiss or try the other lip.
Nip Kissing
This type of kiss has to be done carefully, but when done correctly can create a wonderful effect on your date. While suck kissing, gently bite their lip, but be VERY gentle so as not to hurt your date / partner. This kiss should only be done with someone that you've kissed a few times before, otherwise you may shock your partner.
Surprise Kissing
This type of kiss is done when your partner is lying down on a sofa or the ground, either asleep or just lying with their eyes closed. Quietly approach your partner and place a small, very gentle kiss on their lips. Intensify the kiss until your partner opens their eyes or awakens.
Just enjoy it :). Just think about showing your love to him! GOOD LUCK:D
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2008): Listen, don't worry, when you feel comfortable with him there will come a moment when you'll want to... french kiss. Just tilt your head and lean forwards, your lips will touch and open, slowly let your lips touch and glide. Don't worry if your running out of breath- breath through your nose!!!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2008): Just go with the flow and everything will fall into place, don't worry about it! it will happen and you'll het used to it :)
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2008): hiya im 13 n this boy has asked me 2 snog him n a say yes we are doing it privatly . I am so excited until it comes too the time . I dont show up n he wait 4 ages on me . I tell him i am busy but i am not busy it just because i dont know how 2 snog can u help me so we can meet up n snog .
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reader, karlibee +, writes (1 January 2008):
i am in the same position but the guy i'm with is 5 years older than me and has had a lot more experience than me but the next time i see him i'm going to go for it
i will add another comment when i have snogged him so i think if i am going to go for it, you should too
good luck
xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2007): Well basically... just relax.. dont feel stiff like a cage.. just think oh i can do this...
When it comes to kissing him... close your eyes.. relax.. I say let him make the move first... when hes looking at your lips while your talking then that means he wants to kiss you!... And if you feel conftable and you want to kiss him... look at his lips while he speaks.. then he'll know that you want to kiss him too! Start of with a normal kiss... and work your way up!
Just go with the flow! Dont forget... He may of kissed other girls but he might be nervous himself! you'll never know!
Good Luck x
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2007): well basically..
this sounds weird.
just lean in for a kiss but open your mouth a tiny bit not too much because JUST no.
& then he will probably put his tongue in first (my bf did but usually they do)
and you follow and its that.
dont be scared.. i know i was but i think its stupid now.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2007): well i think that this is all good advise i read the whole lot lol... well in 14 and ive jus started going out with a 17 year old and i am really scared of snogging him cause i havent had that much experience but he prob has and it is really inbarissing cause ot if it goes wrong....thx for the tips i think it will help me tho he is older lol thx xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx thx
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2007): you put your mouth together, move around, one of you will put your tounge in their mouth then with both tounges push together
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2007): lol, just go 4 it, no one cares, and he ant gna say anything..
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2007): I was like tht a month ago i had never snogged a boy and i didnt no were to start but heres my advice stay in charge. Let him make the first move but make sure U decide wen you u first kiss and wen it ends!
Chloe
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2007): hi.. dont worry about it.. snogging just comes natural. start by rolling your tongue around his and just let it all come naturally and go with the flow. Only do it if you know your ready for it and you definately want to do it, because if you don't, it wont come as easy and you will just go stiff. If you relax then your tongue will just follow his and do what it needs to do. It will all happen so fast that you wont do what you prepared anyway, you will do what is right at that time. Chances are, he wont be an expert himself and if he is a true boy he wouldnt do anything if it didnt go too well anyway. You just try again. If you love him with your heart, you'll be natural and do it with ease. just dont worry about it, and im sure it will all go smoothly..x
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 November 2007): tbh i dont know either just let him take his lead and you just follow him till your more confident
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 November 2007): I'm ni the same situation but i'm 16! it seems really scary and i'm sorta nervous
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2007): lol im 15 and i have never snogged a boy im too scared
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2007): Me being a boy, all i can advise to you is. Get the lad on his own because if the snog goes wrong, you don't want to be embarrased in front of other people.---WHERE TO START---When alone, gently move towards him, tilting your head to one side (make sure you tilt your head the oposite way to the boy to avoid nose clashes). If you are not sure whether he wants to snog or not, gently kiss him on the lips and slowly run your tongue over his lips, if he opens his mouth and begins to snog, you know you've done it right.---THE KISS---Snogging is all about your unique way. There is no set way you can do it but i've noticed that a snog is good when you play with the tip of their tongue with yours.HOPE THE ADVICE WORKS WELL FOR YOU, AND GOOD LUCK!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2007): Im a guy n iv snogged a few times but js do it 1 ur drunk n if ya do it rong lol ur druk so no1 cares lol n den imporve GD LUK !!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2007): Hiyah:D
Well..im 15 && I went too this club last weekend,,tis boy i noo whoss really phit:P came ovahh && asked me to get off wid him?! i sed noo straight awayy && after that i felt really tyte on him,,ive got off wid ppl lots ov times b4..but i just dont noo why i sed nooo! :O But i am going to the club agen this week,,soo hopefully he will ask me agen:P good luckk too the rest ov youu,, x x x
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2007): Well .. im 13 and at the moment im with a boy. I was his first kiss.. and i know for a fact he hasnt been with nyone either.. which is a confident boost.. he keeps bringing up stuff about going with me though.. which i know he wonts to snog.. bur i go too and then i stop.. nd i really dunt now why !.. but reading all these tips have reallyy helped .. but im still confused about thetoungue part ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2007): well, it depends on if he is a beginner like you. it SHOULD come naturally but if it doesnt then it means you are not really ready ok?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 October 2007): I'm 13 and in the kind of same situation as you.I dn't have a boyfriend thats the only difference.But a boy does want to snog me.My friends gave me this advice:-..Let him tilt his head first so you can tilt yours the other way e.g he goes right you go to your right (his left)... Dont back out just do whatever feels natural... Everyone is nervous first time you just have to have confidence in yourself.Hope This Helped =DGood Luck ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2007): well like i did......i been with ma bf for 2 weeks...and he went to kiss me and then he starting snogging me and u kno wot....it felt gr8...u just have to let to boy lead u....and then take control....
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2007): well when he does go to snog you dont hesertate becouse wen your lips touch you well naturaly be quite good at snogin
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2007): i am in the same boat, as all the gals, but after reading this, just dont worry i have no idea what will happen, but just dont stress, chillax as my teacher says...
it all goes naturally. if you want to, ask your parents or cousins or siblings who have had a first snog and im sure they will advise you.
good luck to us all x~x
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 October 2007): dont worry ive nevr kissed a boy either and i'm 16 just be confident and goodluck
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 October 2007): do not worry about it when the time is needed it will come naturally is was the same age as you i first snogged someone the best thing to do is not plan it just do it when you feel the time is right. the boys won't mind they just want to be loved.they don't care about these things. so relax and take it as it comes and you will be surpprised
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 October 2007): Hey im 13 and i go to this night club thing where everyone pulls other people and my friend got off with 5 different peolpe last time but i didnt go. im going this timne and REALLY scared..! I have no idea what to do =/
I dont want to get off with loads of people theres just this one boy i like
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2007): hi i'm 14 and in your position too! i only came across this site 'cause i've been reading this book about a girl who has a lot of boy interest lol!!!i woz wanderin how she is so confident & yet,( huge romantic sigh!)so young, but i've been readin these messages & they've helped me loads, i guess when the time comes it's natural! GOOD LUCK WISH ME LUCK TOO!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 September 2007): Dont worry bout it, im the same age and i havent either but ive learnt that when the right moment comes you will be ready for it, just relax and let it flow.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 September 2007): Its Ok, Im 14 too and also with someone i know i will stay with...
All you need to do it relax, gently tilt your head to which ever side feels comfortable to you and then slowly open you mouth letting you lips bind together. Once your doing it its easy i guarente lol
good luck drlin
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 September 2007): u just hav 2 kp kl nd twil goo fin.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 September 2007): the same here hun only i am 12 and i have found a bf and i think we are goin to stay together for a while as it's alredy been 5 weeks!!!just go with the flow and hope u get it right but if some gives you a better answer then plz let me know!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2007): im 15 and i thought i had snogged a boy already and then i came to realize that i actually hadnt i was really scared that i was gonna be crap and i wouldnt be able to get a boyfriend but one night a boy i hardly knew asked me for a kiss and i was so hyper at the time that i just snogged him tongues and everything and that was that, trust me i worried so much about my first snog but you really dont have to like everyone says here for some reason as soon as you touch lips everyhting just starts flowing so dont worry youll be fine and after if you still worry if your not very good then just see if your boyfriend wants to kiss you again or even ask him to rate it out of 10 well maybe that would be embarassing but yeah you get it good luck all you first time snoggers
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2007): Heyy There..
Dont Worrie..
We All Have To Go Through it some tym
i havn't aswell..
me and a mate thought bcz we both havnt done we wld do it but we thought nah bcz we think were gonna go out for a long tym in the future!
Just Go On lots of websites !
then just remember everything it says then you will do fine!
all my luck! x~x
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 August 2007): If u haven't kissed before it's okay. It will happen naturally,and even if u think u messed it up happened to me u're partner may not think so. Even so just keep practicing and u'll get the hang and rythym of it!!!! GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!!!!P.S. My sister is almost 19 and she hasn't had her first snog yet so don't feel left out
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 July 2007): i was so worryd bout my first kiss to which didnt happen until i was 14 to but when your lips touch ur worrys vanish
just pay attention to what your doin, make sure theres not to much spit involved and enjoy it
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2007): dont worry!i was worried about having my first kiss for yearsand then went it actually happened i didnt think and just went with the flowit isnt badyour instinct just tells u waht to do:)
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2007): dnt worry at all about going in for your fisrt kiss ive done it and i twelve i felt really nervous but i just went for it just be soft n take your time
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2007): aww babe dont worry about it.. it all comes naturally .. jus make sure u aint wearing any gloss!!instinct just kicks in chick!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2007): im scared out of my nutsi have lost so many boy friends n they r realli fitbut now im back with one iv liked 4 yearsand im just goin out with himim going to meet him 2moro n im so scaredtoo snogi like him n dnt want too loose himim scared that he will go round n tell peeps.i hope that 2moro goes welltell ya how it goes 2moro
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2007): heya!!
i no how you feel!! but i have snogged someone but every time i get called "bad" or a "washine machine" but i don't know what they mean!!
but what i know of snoging is when you put your toungue in someone else'd mounth nd just touch each others toungue!!
xOxOxOx
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2007): hi ya dont worry its quite easy if you've kissed a boy before if not here's how get u'r pillow (i no it sounds stpid)and just kiss it or if you have a bro try it on him or go on the internetxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2007): Hi.. I am 13 and i have a b/f he wants me to snogg him but i really don't know how to? im not scared to do it.. its just i don't know how to?
can you help me?
signed
Troubled One!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2007): its ok jus go in and it will come natrully
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 January 2007): Hi there im 13.
I have snogged about 10 boys and its not that hard to do it, i remeber my first snog. I was about 12 and it was with this boy who was 13 and i was really nervous and i wanted to chicken out so badly and i didnt want to tell him i hadnt snogged anyone before because i thought he would go and tell everyone at school, then no one would go out with me. So i just put my arms around him and he did the same and he tilted his head one way so i tilted mines the other way and the we started kissing. Its a kind of tingling feeling and its really exciting! LoL BYE
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2007): hi i am 15 years on age and i have never kissed a lad but do remember a little kiss in prmary.i am scared on wot he will think and if he thinks his otha gf was beta!! wen using ur tounge wer do u put it do u :
a)circle it round his tounge
b)leave ur tougue in ur mouth and let him do the tongues
c)or do ya just put it anywere then move it back into ur mouth.
by da way do u keep ur toungue in his mouth constantly or move it in and out.i am really nervous plz help me. P.S is there anything u shudnt do while kissing.. plz write back lv me XX
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 January 2007): well that happen to me. type in to google and type how to snog and they give good tips.
when your lips touch you will know what to do trust me.
ggod luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 September 2006): when you know your about to snog make sure he makes the 1st move and as he leans towards you just kiss a the start to prepare yourself and then wait 4 him to slip in the tongue and when he does make sure you dont go to fast or stick your tongue too far and let the lad massage your tongue and do the same to him and he'l never want to stop
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2006): i'm a 14 year old guy! and i've pulled loads! basically the guy goes 70% of the way! move in (without tour mouth wide open like a fish!!) and brush lips! and then if he feels comfortable open your mouth slightly and the guy will brush his tongue against the end of yours! then just go 4 it! and remember move your tongue slowly! nothing 2 vigorous! hope this helps
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2006): ok.. first thing first.. I am in completely the same situation as u.. I am a 14 yr old gal, and my boyfriend is sort of pressurising me into go further with him than just a snog... and I can tell u I am worried. When i had my very frst snog i was petrified!! it only happened about 2 weeks ago, so its frsh in my mind. I'll be honest wid u, both boy and girl are nervous, and u jus gotta thnk tht he will probably be nervous about wat U thnk about him, so jus go wid the flow and have fun, frst times always the hardest, bt once u get over tht stage, its jus fun and u 4get about nerves!! gd luck ul b f9!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2006): im 14 nd the 1st time i did it i was everywhere. it was hard but just go wiv ur heart nd u will get it right!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 April 2006): I'm in the same situation ive never snogged some1 b4 bt the girl im goin out with has i let her leed and it went fine im now more comfortable and it helps to feel somthing like her ass when doig it as long as shes ok with it i now snog her all the time
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reader, Dunno +, writes (11 April 2006):
like am a guy who is going out with someone older i know she wants to get off with me but i don't know how to plzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz help me !
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reader, bodylotion +, writes (28 March 2006):
 Well i have only snogged a lad once or twice but all you have to do is follow this lad lead.You should also tell him your situatoin then he doesn't ask to much of you.I understand that you will be embarrassed talking to him so you can easly check out google "How to snog"and you should see some useful advice on here.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 March 2006): i am i boy hu has never got off with any 1 b4 on my girlfriend tryed it so many times n i cant tell the difference between i normal kiss and a start 2 get off with her and i dont no how 2 du it
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2006): heya iam 12 years old and i have got off with bare boys how to do it:its kinda like french kissing but much smootherits like a long long kisswhen your about to do it dont back down dont chicken outif you do it wrong just explain to the boy.girlthat this is ur 1s time ....
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2006): Dont worry im the same. i am 14 and have never snogged any one but as i have read through these answers i feel more relaxed and there is no hurry. Be gentle and all should flow smoothly.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2005): Dont panic! its not that bad and you need to remeber to be very soft and experiment loads, you should not feel pressured to kiss anyone if you dont wish to, if you go out with someone it is not compulsary to snog them, But if you think you are ready and want to learn just be gentle move your tongue slowly and often EXPERIMENT, be romatic rub the back of his neck or his hair do what ever comes to you at that moment. Good Luck aunty S
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 October 2005): dont feel nervous im in the same position almost except im a guy who hasnt kissed a girl maybe like me he feels quite nervous as well just take it slow and try not to be to nervous if ur not very good oh well he'll give u another chance im sure
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 April 2005): the first time 'ay, think what its like when your mum, or dad snoggs you, then think of your bloke. He will obviously try to take it further. Just be on your toes and thinking ahead may keep the sparks as sparks, and not a five alarm heart on fire.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2005): Go with the flow. If you are nervous, let him lead!
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reader, Raab22 +, writes (9 April 2005):
First of all - chill out! secondly, don't worry about how old you are and how many people you've snogged as it's quality not quantity (apparently!)! Finally and probably most importantly, there is no text book method other than...be soft, don't eat him, and use tongue. Other than that you'll be surprised how naturally it comes... good luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 April 2005): Firstly, try i tout on your pillow. When you are with him, place your tongue on his and take it from there, but no Washing Machines!
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