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female
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anonymous
writes:This is very embarassing to ask but I really need some advice. My boyfriend and I were having sex. We've only done it a few times before so we're fairly new to this but for some reason he couldn't get in me for a long time. Or as soon as he got close or i'd move my hand, he'd slip back out. He isn't smLl or anything like that so we're both very confused because although this is the second time this has happened to us, we've also had sex successfully. Do you know what the problem could be? Please help us. Reply to this Question
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (6 April 2010):
Umm your vagina muscles wouldn't push his penis out...if you tighten your muscles like doing a kegel it just wraps tighter around his penis.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThis is all really helpful, but if it is my vagina muscles that are pushing him out which might be the cause since I was a little nervous, how can I make my vagina muscles stop doing that?
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male
reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2010): It sounds like he may not have a full erection. It also sounds like your hand is in the way. Why does moving your hand make his penis slide out of your vagina?
The next time, make sure you work up his erection good and hard and use your hand and mouth as needed. If he goes soft, he will slip out as you described.
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (5 April 2010):
Usually it has to do with size...small penises usually have that problem. But if he isn't on the smaller side, I agree, it has to do with angle. If you're on top and you're sitting to far back or too high, it can happen. Same with not being fully erect, it won't stay in if he starts getting soft.
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reader, Not My Name  +, writes (5 April 2010):
 Could be the angle, position, the relative sizes of the respective partners, he may not be fully erect/hard, either of you (depending on the position) may be simply moving too much for the penis length and inadvertantly withdrawing it fully. No biggy tho!
Just make sure he has a good erection and then expreiment with positions, angles, and degree's of movement that suit. You do sometims have to adjust things dependant on the partner you are with and it's not an indication of anything being a problem, ... just a indication that you need to learn each others bodies more and what work for you both to mesh together.
Have fun sorting it out :-)
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