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writes:I’m so confused right now. My ex Dan who’s 33 and I have been over for a year. The relationship only lasted 15 months but the connection between us was incredible. Dan has a lot of personal issues he’s been through so much in his life and was incredibly insecure and this is what led to our break up as he felt he could not trust me. Anyway we talk on and off by social media for the last year. Then lastnight he messaged saying he was bored and I said come over to mine if you want we can have a drink and watch a film and he did. We ended up having sex and it was amazing. The sexual chemistry between us had always been amazing and lastnight showed that that hasn’t changed even though we havnt seen each other for a year. He even told me he loved me while having sex. It was as passionate and intense as it always had been. Afterwards we spoke a lot about old happy memories from our relationship and I fell asleep in his arms with him kissing me. This morning I’ve got up early and gone to work. I’ve text him hope he’s feeling ok and not too tired. He replied saying he had a lovely time with me but that’s as far as it goes , he is not interested in restarting a relationship. I text back saying ok I understand but that I do love him and never stopped but if he doesn’t want a relationship then I can’t force him. He hasn’t replied and I don’t intend on messaging him again. I’ll leave it at that. But inside I feel heartbroken I really do love him and I know he still has feelings for me but just doesn’t want to be with me. Like I said, he’s a very complex person he’s had alot of trauma in his life and is very avoidant. When we were together I hurt him in rows and he’s told me this and I think he just thinks if we got back together it would be the same as what it was before. I don’t want to appear clingy and needy so I’m just going to leave him alone now, should I just try and move on?
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