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writes:hey im 16 and im really confussed about my sexuality i like girls and i kinda like guys and i try to go out with guys but it feels strange in my mind i think me liking girls is wrong and i shouldt feel this way so i put presure on myself to like guys theres alos this girl i know who says she likes me and shes nice and stuff but she says she ent gay or bi or w.e and its just me and everytime we go out things go strange and we ent up where we started i dunno if she actually likes me or is just wanting the attention plus she ent always honest im so confussed plz help thanks xxx Reply to this Question
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reader, Keria  +, writes (22 April 2007):
Hi sweetheart!
I can't help you with your specific friend you've talked about, but I will tell you that there is nothing wrong with a girl liking girls. But that doesn't mean you won't like guys. A girl can be perfectly normal and be bisexual. The main thing is for you to accept this in your mind, and then go from there. Don't worry about what other people think, and don't put yourself in a box. If you put yourself in a box, you will only get confused if you find sometime you think differently than what you expected of yourself. Hope this helps!
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reader, Royofthe Rovers +, writes (22 April 2007):
 The worst thing you can do is to put pressure on yourself. 16 is a difficult age and your sexuality is just starting to develop, so let it develop.
Maybe consider going to see a school counsellor and talking about your feelings to someone. If not a counsellor someone else you can trust and be open to.
Dont bottle this up inside because as you have already said its putting yourself under an immense strain.
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