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writes:I have been with my boyfriend for six years and I found out three days ago that he cheated and the girl is 6-7 months pregnant!!! He said that he was sorry and I forgave him, but Im so hurt and dont know if I should cope with it or move on. I told him I still love him and care for him, but im still angry. Should I choose to stay how do u deal with this situation?
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reader, RainyDays93  +, writes (26 September 2010):
If a man cheats how do you know he won't do it again? When someone cheats the trust is gone and you can't have a relationship without trust.
How comfortable will you feel when this girl has the baby and he is being a father to someone else's child. It will be a constant reminder of his betrayal.
Think about what you deserve and what is best for you in the long run. It will hurt breaking up with him now but after some time passes it will be okay and a good thing you've done for yourself. You are young and have your whole life ahead of you and there are some great guys out there and you'll find a man who truly loves you and wouldn't cheat on you.
You deserve better than a cheater!
Hope i've helped and hope things work out :)
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