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writes: I fanitasize about making love to my sister in law. She is two years younger than me and she is also married. During sex with my wife, she is all I think about. I have seen her naked before, and I cannot erase that picture out of my mind. I flirt with her every time I see her, and she casually flirts back with me. When we sit next to each other, I always try to touch her with my leg or arm, just having some physical contact. I pleasure myself to her a couple of times each day. When we visit or they visit us, she gets dressed with the door cracked open, ever so slightly, I just stare. My sex life with my wife is almost non-existant, and she could care less. I am afraid of taking this to the next level. How do I approach my sister in law to see if she knows how I feel. I know she knows that I watch her undress, and she gets off on that. But I am afraid if I try to take this to the next level, she might get angry and even tell my wife. How do I know if she is interested, and should I continue to pleasure myself to her, or finally act on those desires and get it behind us. Thanks for any feedback.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2008): "Don't even think about trying to do it".I understand that when things are not great at home a mans eye starts to "wander"But do not do anything with your sister in law.I happen to have a very beautiful Sister in Law.She has everything that any man would want,Beauty,Brains, great Body and a great personality.But she is always going to be my wife's sister and that makes her off limits.Try to find out whats wrong with your wife and fix it.If it cannot be fixed,Get divorced.But no matter what happens,leave your Sister in Law alone.She may "Flirt" with you,but that does not mean she want's you,trust me on this,let the fantasy go.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 December 2008): HiI think it is the voyeurism you are addicted too.
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reader, firepink  +, writes (9 December 2008):
when i meant talk to your wife, i meant about the lack of intimacy, not the fantasy, DONT DO THAT!!
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reader, mikesgirl07  +, writes (9 December 2008):
I would talk to her one on one and tell her how u feel. Its ok to look at another girl but to get off thinking of another gurl when your married is another story. You picked your wife to marry not her sister. Your wife has the same stuff as her sister. Shes married and your married. If you didnt want to marry your wife and you wanted her sister than u should of married her sister not her.
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reader, firepink +, writes (9 December 2008):
Hi, dont do it!! its a no brainer, it could be because you have no intimacy with your wife that you are creating a fantasy with your sister-in law, (that would only ever end in tears) do you love your wife? if you do maybe you should talk to her about how you feel and apprach the subject of being intimate with her and see how she feels bout it. It might be that if you get that back on track, the fantasy will fade and you'll be thankful you havent acted on it! By the way, how have you seen her naked before?
on the flip side, you could approach you sister in law about the whole - leaving the door open thing because it cud be thats she is playing with you and thats not fair! because trust me if you touch her, get close to her I guarantee that she knows you like her, so why is she behaving like this? I'd be very carefull of that one if I was you! Maybe you could say aloud, when she does it next" man, you could close the door when you get dresses next time - and laugh it off!" that will stop her in her tracks and bring in to the attention of others, i guarantee it will make her think twice!
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