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writes:Ok Please someone help.I got dumped a month ago. Boyfriend got depressed, relationship became exhausting for him, he asks to be my friend no more gf/bf. I was devastated, couldnt accept it, went on about it for a week asked if he even loved me he said as a friend...Im lost without him, I still want him, Love him more than anything but right now he doesnt want me. He wants to focus on himself and hes now in therapy for his depression.Well I was hurt for such a long time, I still think about him every single day, so many memories, I still love him, I hope he comes back to me but I just dont know if he ever will. I havent talked to him in 2 weeks because Im not sure how to be his friend. During this time Ive stopped hurting so much. yes the pain is still sorta there when I think about him with other people and stuff but Ive got over it almost. Im much better anyways.However Ive changed a little. All I want is sex. And I constantly crave to drink.I now drink when I can, I stay at this guys house alot because he stays in town and its free accommodation and Ive always thought he was hot but because im single and want sex im dying to jump him, but Im in love with my ex so I never will have sex with anyone else until I no longer feel this way. But how do I stop? I mean all I do is think about my ex, crave sex and want to drink.I used to think about sex alot anyway but that disappeared but now its back with a vengence and I want it badly. And Ive never been much of a drinker but now its like all I want to do. Help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 May 2011): Drinking and casual sex. It's easier to run from heartache than it is to face it and the fact someone you love doesn't love you the same way. I had a wonderful woman once. Said just be friends. I climbed into a bottle and made one of the biggest mistakes of my life. I've had my heart broken twice since, both times equally devestating, the most recent of which was earlier tonight. (fiance of 3 years). Hang in there, keep your head up, and try not to cry too much. Try speaking with a counselor or psychiatrist, or even a really good friend. It helps to write if you're into that, even if no one reads it. Do what you can to stay busy with work, hobbies, school, anything else which doesn't involve him or his friends. Try your best to hang on and realize you're not alone in this thing. - Good luck.
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