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writes: i had a baby 10 months ago and my boyfriend doesn't want to sleep with me anymore i have put weight on and i'm doing all i can to lose it but if i mention sex my partner says he's tired we havn't slept together in months what should i do
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2008): I am having the same problem with my hubby. I had a baby 7 months ago and it seems like he is never in the mood
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reader, iggyzap +, writes (2 December 2005):
i just had a baby 3 months ago and i know how you feel. i had the same problem. he didnt seem intrested in sex and i felt really unattractive, the baby weight is the pits!! and very hard to lose but i talked to my b/f and found out that he was afraid of hurting me and didnt know if i was ready so he didnt persue sex and with the baby and working he really was too tired. i read an article that said even if you dont feel like it the more you have sex the larger your sex drive will become so we talked about it and agreed to set a scheduled time for adult play time even if the other doesnt feel like it and we are getting back on track. i hope this helps in your situation. good luck and congrats on your new baby!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2005): Dont worry your not the only women with this problem, , i have seen over many womens message boards and magazines asking that question why wont he sleep with me anymore and we just had a baby? I think you should just ask him, maybe his just scared or maybe he really is tired, you two have a baby that can be alot of work as you have probably found out. and dont worry im pretty sure its not your weight gain that is causing him not to be interested in sex , so just ask him and tell him that you miss being intimate with him. good luck
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