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writes: I can't seem to get over my ex...I met him in 2004 when 15 and we fell in love with each other. It was a really good relationship. After we broke up, we stayed friends and often went out together to gigs, parties and I spent time at his and him at mine. (even tho he lives kinda far)We still told each other we loved each other.But last August he just stopped talking to me and a fewweeks later I found out he'd fallen out with his 2 best friends and was living with his new girlfriend.I went down to their flat, got drunk and got angry with him and ended up fighting with him coz he'd kept telling me he loved me up until he stop talking to me.He promised he would keep in touch but hasn't called or texted or anything since September.I've been hanging around with his ex best mate but I know that that has nothing to do with him not talking to me. I know I can't force him into talking to me but I just can't imagine my life with out him coz he's helped me through so much and I haven't had a b/f since him coz no guys are intersted in me.I really don't see how he can just forget all about me. I miss him very much as a friend, not as a b/f.But it angers me that he has let his g/f change him and he no longer talks to me, Ryan or Stu. I just don't see how he can block us out. Help!!Jackie...17!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2007): you need to get over that sap, he clearly does not care about you.dont waste your time, drop the zero, get with the hero.there are almost 7 billion people on this planet.keep that in mind.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2007): I know this post is old, but I still wanted to respond. Okay, to Milana and anonymous female read: He did NOT do the right thing. They were friends. Period. End of story. You can pack up and go home now. What this boy did was ditch his friends, NOT his girlfriend. I cannot stand women who has issues if their current is still friends with their ex's. I have news for you. It's you with the issues.What I will do, is post a exert from an article I read. The article was response to a girl whose ex-boyfriend was getting married to a woman she (or anyone else for that matter) could stand. Like the person asking the question on here, she was friends with her ex for ages, until this vapid-straw of a woman came along and cut him off from his friends, probably family, and most importantly, her.Here was the response:So what can you do? I dunno. I'd love it if just once, when they come to that part in the pre-game ceremony where the umpire says if there's anybody here who knows any reason why these two should not be joined in holy matrimony, if just once somebody would stand up in the bleachers and open her mouth and say, "Yeah, I know a reason. Because this guy was a friend of mine, a very good friend, and we had a house together and lots of good friends, and we're losing all that, and we knew him, I mean we really knew him, not like this chick but really knew him like on the floor puking drunk and up till 4 afraid of dying and sick with the flu and diarrhea, we knew he didn't like corn flakes because of a childhood accident he never talks about, we knew he had no backhand and always travels after he dribbles, we knew he never read 'To Kill a Mockingbird' but did the Cliffs Notes instead, we knew this guy like a brother until this brittle, frosty chick got her nails done and dug them into his back and dragged him up here like one more expensive rag doll. We lived with this guy and now we're going to have to move. We grew up with this guy and worked with this guy and we were this guy's real family and now we're losing all that. We were maybe the only real family he's got, and now comes this frilly Victorian one-act play complete with costumes and scenery to say none of what we had with him even mattered, none of that was real, it was all just kids play and now we're adults and putting away our childish things and setting up house for real. Well, all of that was real, it was probably as real as it ever will get. You're walking away from your real life, my friend, your real friends, your real house and everything that's real in your life today, and you're doing it all for some glossy mirage of a fairy-tale life. So screw you and screw your special little invitations and your ridiculous bridesmaid outfits and your rented glassware and your aphasic caterer and the whole fraudulent kissy-kiss merging of families and pompous parental aplomb."And then just quietly excuse yourself.As the ridiculous white limousine with the spray-painted windows and the tin cans tied to the bumper rolled out of Palookaville headed for the big time, you'd have a bit of explaining to do. But maybe, just once, it'd be worth it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 January 2006): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for the help but I don't see how this girl is any differnt from the other ones hes been out with sinces me that makes him stop talk'n 2 me.
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reader, MilanaNYC21 +, writes (20 January 2006):
 He did the right thing. When a relationship ends, you have to let things go and move on. Perhaps you should do what he did and carry on with your life. It is unfair to his new girlfriend that he has constant relations with his ex.
You should find yourself a new guy and start a new love!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2006): Let it go, sweetie. If you were the new flame in some guy's life, you wouldn't want him spending all that time with his ex g/f and friend either. It's sad that he chose to cut all ties with you and his best buds, but who knows. He might come back to his senses. If it's this new girl that made stop talking to you guys, then I doubt it'll work out with him and her. Just hang tight, but in the mean time, don't bother yourself so much. I'm sure you have other friends and if not,make some.
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