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writes:Hi dear cupid,I'm 19, she's 17. I met her, got her number we started calling and texting each other very frequently. After a month it was almost like we were boyfriend and girlfriend but I hadn't officially asked her, but in theory we were. I would always call to tell her goodnight and she would call me in the morning to wake me and wish me a good day. (thats how close we were)Then one day I tried to make it official, I asked her to be my girlfriend. She told me she needed a day or two to think about it. I said it was ok. From that day things have just been a little awkward between us. When we text or call each other we don't seem to have that spark anymore. I told her to try to get her mind off what I asked her to clear her mind a bit. I tried calling and texting her sometime after and never got a response. I decided that Ii should just probably leave her alone for some time. About one month later I was downtown and I felt someone give me a sort of semi hug from behind... it was her. I asked how she was doing she said ok, she seemed a bit busy in a rush but while leaving she said "so you stopped texting me?".I am deeply confused. What should I do? Should I just start calling her now and ask her to kick off from where we left off? (wouldn't that be awkward). There is this other girl who I just met, we aren't close (just met) I have her number but we only talked once and she seems very interesting. Should I just wait for the girl one (1) to call me? Should I call her or should Ii try to get closer to the girl I just met?Thanks in advance.
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reader, hannah76  +, writes (20 May 2011):
 Hello,
I'd try to further with the girl you just met. The first one had to think about it and that's never a good sign. What's there to think about? Nothing you either want or you don't. She became distant because she didnt want to answer with a no. So, let this one go straight away. Further with the new girl.
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