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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:My classmate who works a club got us in. At school he seems to be shy and keeps to himself, but at work he seem to be more relaxed. He had been complimenting me all night and told my friend that he was a shy guy. Then next thing I know we are making out, and that was it. My friends suggested I ask to hangout with him, since I had nothing to lose. Because it was the end of the school term, and when I did he said yes. However we never really set an exact date. I ended up going to the same place where he works with friends and he had brought it up towards the end of the night like I thought we were suppose to hangout. School term was coming to an end I texted him if he still wanted to hangout on a specific date. He said sure but that he'd busy that day either way he'd see me in school. I texted him on the specific day given and gave him a time and place where I'd be and he didn't respond. So was I just confused thinking he was into me? Also he ended speaking to a mutual friend and told her what the incident, the girl called me and was trying to tease me. I was upset that he'd tell her especially since she had liked him previously. Why would he have told her and is it crazy for me to ask him or should I just let it go?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 April 2009): I think you should talk to him and find out exactly where he stands. Don't let leave anything vague or confusing. Know where you stand, good or bad. It's much easier that way.
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