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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:me and my boyfriend have only been together for about half a year, but already i feel like a boring old couple i see on tv and think.... how unlucky. as he is hardly ever home because he has a job on the other side of wales by his dad i never know what he is realy doing, and in the past he's had a habit of telling other girls how much he wants them over the phone and chat rooms, and even now when we go out i notice him stare at other girls constantly, he knows it upsets me,he has always been like that and is trying to stop being so violent, he says he always wants to hurt only me but wouldnt actualy do it...i dont think. i dont know what els to do. i always feel like im not good enough for him and dont even like watching tv with him because i keep thinking he would leave me anyday for someone like them. i know it sounds stupid and he shouts at me because i always pt myself down and call my self names like fat and ugly and worthless. i never used to, its just i always think that he will meet someone better and he will run off with her, he tells me im the one he loves and tells me that im stunning but words mean nothing to me, he wont even take me out anywere unless i pay. i love him more than anything in the world and i cant imagen my life without him, but it hurts so much just to be with him, i even dream about him with other girls and i wake up wanting to cry. should we stay together ..?
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reader, ilovebowsandcherries +, writes (28 May 2009):
 hun!
get out of that relationship now!
seriously!
he doesn't love you enough when you said he stares at other girls.
you put yourself down because that is how he makes you feel!!
he may not say it no but it's how you feel and feel what he is thinking because he stares at other girls.
he says he will ONLY hurt you?
to me he would hurt you!
but you really need to get otu of there pronto i mean what sort of relationship is this?
you don't want to be with him he's obviously violent some ways he puts you down in ways that don't need saying.
he's the other side of Wales and you don't know whether or not he's cheating on you or anything!
you really need to get rid of this horrible bloke and find yourself a decent one.
one who'll compliment you just because he wants too and DEFINATELY not look at other girls because he knows it upsets you.
Hope this helps.
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