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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:i really wanna be back with my girl but we just argue to much and now that we're seperated she says we need time to be from each other for a while but we are still in a relationship..... wen we were staying together she was the only one with a job and i knw it was rough but im lookingand now she's like she wants to g stay back with her mom and i stay where im at.... but i dnt want that i want to be back hme with her but she claims she needs to think about it...... i just dnt knw if we should still be together or not bc the arguments are getting worser and worser but she claim to be sooo in love with bt y would she not want us to be together.???:? is she cheating? is it another somebody she wants? or should i just move on ??? i need help asap..........
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 February 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanx
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 February 2011): I think it's sometimes too easy for people to say they 'love' you. A lot of the time they don't know what 'love' actually is. It's more in the fact that they just want to be in a relationship so they're not SINGLE. When two people love each other, it's a natural bond that exists which should bring out the BEST in each other. Constant fighting, yelling and splitting up and getting back together is NOT a healthy and natural 'special bond' that your are sharing. It seems more like you are both defying what's natural. You don't seem suited but yet you are still trying to defy that critical point and keep trying to pursue the relationship anyway. I say move on and find someone that makes you happy in a more natural and easier way.
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