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writes:Relationship question????I have a finance and going to get marry next year. His ex-girlfriend calls here and there. I dont have a problem with that. I realize we all knew other people before me and him. My questions is: Do you think it is ok for him and her to go and shoot pool together. Every so often. Need help!!!!!!!!! Please advise I would appreciate.Atl
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2009): I think what matters is what you think about his going out and what is too much. I personally would not like it, but I am older, too and I am pretty much DONE with that nonsense.
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reader, katkat +, writes (20 December 2009):
Thank you for everyone's reply. Sincerly yours he stated he has no problem with me going out with my men friends for lunch. Because he trust me.. We had some words this morning. I stated to him where are the boundaries. I feel a man may stated that but once I put on my heels and my hair is done to go kick it with a man friend. I think that perception will change. Iam frustrated as hell. He also like to go out alot. At least twice a week. Now when I was single I went out, I still do here and there. He dont feel nothing is wrong with that. Now this man is 20yrs older than me. Yes I like them older, I get joked all the time. LOL. I feel for a man that is about to get marry going out 2-3 times a week is alot. Even if he does invite. What do you think out there?????? He piss me off to when he stated People out there(meaning when he goes out) that 2-3 times a week is fine.
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2009): Ditto
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reader, Sincerely Yours +, writes (20 December 2009):
 Talking on the phone alone seems fine, but wherever he goes with her, he should have no problem with your going as well. If she's going to be in his life, then he needs to allow you to be in her life also. There is no reason that I can see, that your fiancee needs to go out alone with his ex girlfriend.
~Sy
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