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writes:Im in a committed ldr since 1 year 9months. my bf is going to the most romantic place (Goa) with his male friends in the month of may. Goa is famous for beaches and of course bikini babes. should my bf be going like this with his friends?? is it ok? is it fair?note - he said if i dont like it then he would cancel his tickets but i thought he will feel bad so i didnt say anything.he also said he will bring a gift (maybe a shirt or bikini) for me.but my concern is that he will watch those bikini babes, will comment, dont know why am feeling bad.but i trust him a lot and he loves me a lot. i thought we will go together in future, now i cant go because of my exams.am confused. plz help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionya..wil try.neways thnxx
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reader, krit +, writes (5 April 2011):
 No, the case is still the same as I had all of my girl and guy friends from school with me on that trip. The only difference is that you are in a LDR and I was not. That's why I'm not a big fan of these LDR's as they always create confusion and misunderstandings. No matter how hard you TRY but they always happen.You said that you know him from 2 yrs , so that's a quite a lot of time , so just talk to him openly about your feelings . I'm sure he'll respond positively. just remove all of your worries as these LDR's are quite delicate So they have to be treated with extra attention and care.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questiondude she was excited because u were going on a school trip to goa. here the case is different,my bf is going to goa with his friends.i know its common for you all to watch such stuffs,still am feeling weird about it.
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reader, krit +, writes (4 April 2011):
So what problem do you have with that????I also went to goa from school tour with my friends, and it was one of most enriching experience for me. I too had a girlfriend at that time and she was actually more excited than me for me going over there.Just let your guy have a life outside this relationship also. And yeah boys will be boys, so they will have their share of fun, no matter how anyone stops them. But don't worry about the so called BIKINI babes as we've seen lot of that in movies and other stuff, so that's not big deal at all. We also know how to control overselves under such circumstances. We don't go goa to watch those bikini babes, we go there to have fun and spend time with our friends. Btw, I brought a special kind of sweet from goa for my lovely gf. Let's see what you get????
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